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TJ5476

33 / M / bisexual / Single

Grand Rapids, Michigan

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am an FTM, a dork, and an over-analyzer.

My Self-Summary

I am a pre-op female to male transguy. I just started testosterone on Oct 8th. :) I am a social worker/therapist, working with the co-occurring population. I'm a goofy, silly, sarcastic, kind, Mel Brooks lovin', Buffy the Vampire lovin, laid back, anxious (weird, right), non-judgmental, gender-fluid, easy-to-talk to, Harry Potter lovin/Twilight lovin’ (books and movies) like a teenage girl kind of guy. I am looking for like minded individuals for friends or maybe dating. I have great family and friends who support me. I put that I am bi, but I am only attracted to women, however, I am a part of the queer community (there is no queer or trans button). If I sound like the kind of person you would like to get to know, then contact me.

What I’m doing with my life

I am working on obtaining my full social work license. My dream is to work with the LGBT community, but more importantly the trans community. We just don't have enough therapists who specialize with the trans population, espeically a therapist who is trans. As I mentioned before, I am working on my transition.

I’m really good at

I'm a good listener, good at observation, good at analyzing, good at empathizing, procrastinating, good at laughing, silliness, and I'm good with the sarcasm.

The first things people usually notice about me

I've been told that I have nice eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies: Spaceballs, Airplane, Heathers, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Go Fish, The Heartbreak Kid, all Harry Potter, 40 Year Old Virgin, 16 Candles, The Back to the Future Trilogy, The Breakfast Club, The Karate Kid, There's Something About Mary, The Naked Gun, Goonies, The Wedding Crashers, Ghostbusters, Caddyshack, Grease, A League of their Own, Blazing Saddles......

TV: Dexter, Weeds, Bullshit, Californication, the L Word, Friends, Will & Grace, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, the Golden Girls (dorky), Roseanne, The Tudors, The United States of Tara, Nurse Jackie, Nip/Tuck, Six Feet Under, First 48, Crime 360, Man V Food, Ghost Hunters,

Music: Tori Amos, Ani DiFranco, Nine Inch Nails, Alice in Chains, Nirvana, STP, Ben Folds, Fiona Apple, Tool, Duran Duran, The Gossip, Bijork, PJ Harvey, Rufus Wainwright, Billy Idol, 80s music, classic rock....

Food: Chocolate, Indian, Chinese, Italian, Mexican....

Books: Harry Potter, Twilight, Odd Thomas, reading Becoming a Visible Man

The six things I could never do without

My family and friends, my dogs, chocolate, TV, and my car.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My transition and what my future holds.

On a typical Friday night I am

It can be any or a combination of the following:
Hanging out with family
friends
TV
movie
internet
playing cards
whatever.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am having a lot of fear in regards to my transition.

You should message me if

you are open-minded, fun, have a sense of humor, you are queer in any way, if you are interested in talking....

Also, if you are a woman who is self identified, as opposed to identifiying yourself by who you are with. If this is you, then definitely contact me.