Hi, I'm T.J. I'm currently finishing my bachelors degree at The Hartt School of Music. Music has been a part of my life since the beginning. Both of my parents have degrees in music education, so I have kind of been doomed to be a musician (haha). I have been playing the drums since I was in fifth grade and it turned out that I wanted to make a career out of it. I also enjoy playing golf and tennis, working as a recording engineer, and watching a good movie.
I'm currently looking for a long term relationship, but definitely wouldn't mind some fun along the way. I'm looking for a nice girl whom of which is not shallow.

I just returned returned from a three week trip to Ghana, Africa. I went with my classmates to study African drumming and dance. It was an unbelievable life changing experience and I highly recommend anyone to travel to a less fortunate country and realize how much we take for granted. I'm in my last year at The Hartt School of Music in West Hartford, CT pursuing a Bachelor of Music in Percussion Performance. After I graduate this year I will probably take some time off to decide what I want to do from here. Graduate schools are options. If I were to go, I would hope to go into recording engineering or some kind of audio science. I know you must be thinking, "He's 23 and he's in his last year of his undergrad?". Well, after I graduated high school I took some time off. I took the first year off completely, then the next year I went to Community College and transfered into my undergrad the fall of 2009. I am a little behind but I don't regret my decision. Sometimes it's better to wait things out before jumping into anything, ya know?

Making people laugh
Answering my phone - ALWAYS
Critically thinking through tough situations
Being loyal

my eyes, tan, strong personality

C-H-I-N-E-S-E F-O-O-D
Movies: Forgetting Sarah Marshall, Get Him to the Greek, Black Swan, Inception, Dogma
TV: I don't watch much TV, but when I do: The Office, Workaholics, South Park

phone
computer
car
water
food
family/friends

my future and how to be as successful as possible

hanging out with friends either at a local bar or someone's house

Before I walk out of the house every morning, I have to have whomever is in the house approve whether what I'm wearing matches because I'm severely colorblind.

are looking for a guy who will be loyal to you, treat you with respect and someone that you can always count on to be there for you.