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23 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:36pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Friendly and talkative. Loves being engaged with people. Ability to be nerdy about just about anything. Very much into comedy, music, and writing. Master of somewhat impressive guitar playing. Lover of history, the news, & politics, until they get too depressing to think about. Reader of books, especially when they involve magic, dragons, and/or space. Equally accepting of any and all lifestyles. Enjoyer of video games and other admittedly immature ways of passing the time. Pessimistic Optimist. Awkward giggler.

I'm TJ. I like making jokes jokes and helping people out.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently moved to Washington to get away from the oppressive conservatism and suffocating heat of the south (NC, for the record). I work a silly office job that's your standard 9-5 (well, 10-6; for the record, yes, it IS way better). Fairly boring, but hey, it's consistent. In my spare time I play guitar, and write the occasional song that I will likely never perform. I have slight aspirations to do comedy and/or improv, but have been busy working up until just around now. Ready to meet more people this summer :)
I’m really good at
Playing guitar, producing / analyzing music (as well as other things). Making convoluted jokes, writing jokes in general, and finding the connections / humor / inherent irony in things. Being generally self deprecating. Playing devil's advocate. Driving awkwardly yet effectively. Making eggs whenever I've been drinking. Menial tasks.
The first things people usually notice about me
People seem to like my hair? I like my eyes, but they annoy me for not picking a color. Oh yeah, there's non physical things to talk about too...I'm generally trying to make people laugh, because I sortaaaa don't think stories/thoughts are even worth telling if they aren't entertaining.

This might not be the "fist thing", but I've been told that I often look distinctively goofy on my feet. Think Andy Dwyer from Parks & Recreation. If you don't watch that show...well, it's quite enjoyable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
->First off, I'm going to list comedians, in lieu of music...because I like them more: Patton Oswalt, Louis CK, TJ Miller, James Adomian, John Mulaney, Eugene Mirman,Anthony Jeselnik, Pete Holmes, Todd Glass, Kyle Kinane, Greg Giraldo, Doug Stanhope, Mitch Hedburg, Dana Gould, David Cross, Marc Maron, Maria Bamford, Andy Daly
-> Shows - Hannibal, Parks and Recreation, Arrested Development, 30 Rock, American Dad, Review, Brooklyn 99, Sunny in Philadelphia, Community, Breaking Bad, Daily Show/Colbert Report, Louie, Comedy Bang Bang, The League, Bob's Burgers, Trailer Park Boys, Modern Family, Justified, Game Of Thrones...Grey's Anatomy...
-> Music - Lotsa stuff. I prefer stuff with heavy guitar, or anything that sounds like it took a lotta work to make? Some regulars: Isis, Thrice, Daft Punk, BTBAM, Circa Survive, Black Dahlia Murder, Deftones, Fear Before, A Wilhelm Scream, Tool, Michael Jackson, Opeth, Massive Attack, James Taylor, Curren$y, He is Legend
The six things I could never do without
Guitar, Iphone full of music & podcasts, Notepad for writing down thoughts, MacBook... Weed? I know, that's sad, but it's true; I have a bit of general body pain & a couple other medical things that it just helps with SO perfectly. Glad to be somewhere it isnt illegal. Oh, and video games - or, at the very least, Pokemon to play on the bus.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music/songs, humor/jokes, irony & hypocrisy, society, sexuality, politics, being/feeling certain ways &thinking about why exactly I do
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my neighbors, probably. Now that it's summer there's lots of grilling and drinks to be had on the deck area of my apartment building. It's pretty cool! Either that or I'm out doing something; I don't go out often, but I love doing it if I have other people who wanna go...such as the lovely people I meet on here :P
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My 06 Taurus is a shocking shade of seafoam. Its really quite awful.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Anything about me whatsoever makes you think you even might want to message me. No matter who you are or what kinda person you are, receiving a message always makes my day.

If you want to have an actual conversation. About anything, really.

"so, what are you looking for?"

Lots of people like to ask this on OkCupid. I myself recognize that this is a dating website. So, to elaborate on my earlier point: I am looking to "date." But this encompasses anything from casual hangouts, lunches, movies, drinks, et cetera...all the way to nice dinners, caring for each other on a personal level, and perhaps even intimate congress. Dating, relationships, "kicking it", as you WA people like to say's all good! Basically I'm pretty chill :P