Intelligence, wit, and sense of humor are the traits I look for first. If you are complete with flaws, a little edgy and still have a little rock-chick left in you, all the better. I should let you know right now that I am allergic to cats and..... country music.
I am only interested in a potential partner who is height-weight proportionate. In return, you get a guy who is in great shape and has a full head of hair! Sorry if this sounds superficial but we are not just spiritual beings. We do live in a physical world too.
For what it's worth: I despise NASCAR, hunting, and chewing tobacco (though I don't mind if you chew) and I occasionally like plundering flea markets and thrift stores seeking hidden treasure.