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27 Raleigh, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–31
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 9
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university

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My self-summary
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When I was younger, I watched a lot of Indian Jones and was convinced I wanted to be an archeologist for years. Then I discovered that archeologists don't typically travel the world fighting Nazis. I've been left reeling ever since.

I'm a college grad with an interest in the arts. My major was in theatre and English. I'm pretty easy going and think people are pretty interesting.

I like new things. New restaurants, new movies, new places, new experiences. I like people with a good sense of humor and I like to laugh. I read once that people who avoid small talk live longer so I'd rather not talk about the weather.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in professional theatre at NC Theatre.

My end goal is to teach theatre at the college level while also having a career as a professional theatre director. I'm interested in theatre, film, the arts, and social issues. Currently I'm trying to gain theatre experience before going off to grad school.
I’m really good at
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Planning things. Chess. Stringing together words to make sentences. Sophistry.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hair. Beard. Wry smile and discerning eye.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Slapstick or Lonesome No More!, Player Piano, The Dune books, Into the Wild, Ender's Game, Frankenstein, The Picture of Dorian Gray, The Shining

Movies: Anything Stanley Kubrick, The Squid and the Whale, Annie Hall, Blade Runner, Synecdoche New York, Melancholia, Ninja Scroll, most superhero movies.

Shows: Mad Men, Game of Thrones, Parks and Rec, The Daily Show

Music: Lou Reed, The Mountain Goats, Jeffery Lewis, Trampled by Turtles, Daniel Johnston.

Food: Thai Food, Japanese, Pizza of all varieties.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) A coffee shop to read and hang out in 2) Close friends 3) Dogs 4) Places to explore 5) Beer 6) Rainy days
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Food. What to do tomorrow. Metecognition. How art affects culture. What that smell is. My future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out or staying in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was a child, I was terrified of clay animated movies. They still startle me.
You should message me if
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Message me if you think we would get along and would like to hang.