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45 • Tempe, AZ • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 45–58
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 14
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and has cats
I am a very observant shy introvert with an active imagination. I would like to meet someone who can chat with me for hours about interesting subjects but also understand when I need to take time alone to recharge.
I'm trying not to be boring, and I'm trying not to be bored.
(Yes, I do talk, in case you were wondering. I even have an accent that comes and goes and is especially prominent on the odd occasion I need to speak to a police officer or ask a stranger for help with some problem with my car.)
I use a VPN to watch shows from the UK, so I can see Downton and Call the Midwife months before they air in the US.
This time of year I spend the evening watching baseball until all the games are over. Watching sports is like my security blanket. Something is always available to watch or read about, and they give me conversational topics the next morning if I run into anyone and need to make small talk.
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