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44 F Tempe, AZ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:39pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
One of my favorite high school teachers once called me a "quiet driving force". I like that phrase and try to remind myself of it.

I am a very observant shy introvert with an active imagination. I would like to meet someone who can chat with me for hours about interesting subjects but also understand when I need to take time alone to recharge.
What I’m doing with my life
Living in the chaos of three school-aged children and many furry pets, and adjusting to being divorced. Earning a few clams with my mad typing skills.

I'm trying not to be boring, and I'm trying not to be bored.
I’m really good at
Trivia, finding lost or misplaced items, Facebook posting, knowing all the words to classic tunes of the 60s and 70s. Typing. Cooking big sloppy casseroles. Being laid back about things like home decor. I like the way things look and I don't feel obligated to change my kitchen counters every two years just because the magazines say I should. As long as nothing is falling down around my ears, I'm content. Oh. I'm good at fixing things sometimes. I've fixed toilets and unclogged kitchen sinks and removed viruses from my PC.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm really, really quiet. On the first day of sixth grade a new girl came up and actually asked me: "So, do you talk?"

(Yes, I do talk, in case you were wondering. I even have an accent that comes and goes and is especially prominent on the odd occasion I need to speak to a police officer or ask a stranger for help with some problem with my car.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like well-researched historical fiction and memoirs. I am pretty selective when it comes to movies. I don't see many blockbuster films or run-of-the-mill romantic comedies. I usually enjoy shorter films with intelligent dialogue, but I also laughed at "The Hangover" until tears ran down my face. TV shows I make time for are "Mad Men", "Parks and Recreation", "Downton Abbey", and "Call the Midwife".

I use a VPN to watch shows from the UK, so I can see Downton and Call the Midwife months before they air in the US.
The six things I could never do without
Pilot G2 Fine point pens (black only); reading glasses; some sort of electronic link to the big wide world; ice; a not-too-fluffy pillow; Skin by Ann Webb Coconut Milk facial cleanser
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why I am having trouble filling this space.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing the same things I was doing 25 years ago: sitting on the couch or a chair, snacks to the left of me, a book (or computer) on my lap, watching TV. The more things change, the more they stay the same. I have my three daughters on Fridays so the rest of the evening is spent shuttling them around to their events and activities. They have a lot more going on than I do at present. All three are extroverts and they are not satisfied staying home.

This time of year I spend the evening watching baseball until all the games are over. Watching sports is like my security blanket. Something is always available to watch or read about, and they give me conversational topics the next morning if I run into anyone and need to make small talk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Um, maybe...oops no, too private. No, hold, not on the Internet. No, that's not interesting enough....
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating