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60 M Batavia, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 45–61
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 21
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm always looking for something new to expand my horizons. Now what I need most is someone to enjoy those things with. I love movies and music and working on projects around the house. I'm loving, loyal, devoted, trusting, romantic, healthy, honest, financially secure, have a logical common sense approach to life, and am NOT perfect. I desire a loving, monogamous, long term, and very intimate relationship with a realist who's not perfect either. I don't kayak (seems like that's popular these days) and prefer sunning on the back porch or the beach to snorkeling, scuba diving, jet skiing, boating, or getting wet at all. I prefer the country to the big city. I like attending live NHL games or NHRA nitro drag racing events but otherwise avoid large crowds and traffic at all costs. I'm not much for social media of any kind. I have a few very good friends and lots of "acquaintances". I'm more a homebody than a world traveler but I wouldn't mind spending a summer seeing the sights the USA has to offer via RV. I am NOT a fan of wearing a tie or, for that matter, dressing up very often (love casual and comfortable). I don't enjoy high maintenance anything. I'm not a fan of high fashion, heavy make-up, or fancy jewelry. Women are naturally beautiful and don't need those trappings camouflaging that fact. My house is clean and well maintained. I like to do housework (except dusting), yardwork, and cook (although not gourmet by any means). I respect independence, loyalty, common sense, and moderation above all in a mate and especially relish one who doesn't mind getting her hands dirty with me. I like most "normal looking" dogs but generally only tolerate cats. I'm a list maker. I forget to eat lunch (and sometimes dinner) on days I'm engrossed in a project. I believe in God & attend contemporary church services weekly, but I'm not born again intense about it. I'm an Independent but lean conservative fiscally, socially, and politically. I love my country, serving 22 years as an Air Force officer. I'm very visually oriented because my hearing sucks. I take care of my body and desire a partner who shares that philosophy. I keep active to keep fit (but not a gym junkie) and hope my partner would have that goal also. In my experience, your appearance and physical condition speaks volumes about you. I have nothing personal against anyone who is overweight. I just prefer not to date them. That's my choice. Don't kid yourself... YOU have your discriminators too (physical, financial, political, or other). I like to touch, hold, kiss, and love giving massages (I actually own a massage table). I'm a huge fan of PDA and don't mind acting out in public. I have an experimental side that likes to keep things fresh and interesting. My partner must not be afraid to communicate clearly. She's 5' 2" to 5' 8" tall, 45-61 years of age and educated. She should have an established skill or profession. She may be currently working or retired. She is financially responsible, unattached, STD free and is willing to be monogamous during our relationship (I don't share well with others). I'm putting this all out there so you know my preferences from the onset. No surprises, no games. If you'll give me a chance I think you'll be pleased with the results. I'm no comedian, but I'll do my best to keep you smiling and happy. Thank you for taking the time to read this through.
NOTE: I won't reply to, or contact anyone without at least one clear, current, 3/4 - full body length picture where you fill most of the frame. Pictures of your pets, home, car, grand kids, or vacation spots where you are a dot in the frame do not count. Head shots alone do not count. Anything older than two years does not count. I put myself out there and it's only fair I get to see you too. "Body Type" evaluations are totally subjective and generally under estimated (today's "average" is yesterdays "a little more"). They're of little to no value unless backed up by a photo. If you've read this far we might be a match! Hope to hear from you soon.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm retired military but work part time to keep from going nuts.
I’m really good at
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Treating my partners with respect, love, tenderness, and compassion. As a bonus, I'm also very handy at fixing things around the house and keeping vehicles/machinery running. I'm told I give an exciting Tantric style massage and will work very hard to meet all my partners physical and emotional needs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Can't really say...You can tell me your thoughts when we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love watching movies and listening to music at home. I almost always have some kind of music playing in the background. I like most types of music from classical and easy listening to alternative and heavy metal. I rarely listen to country but don't mind it. I don't care for hip-hop, rap, or disco. I enjoy watching action/adventure, sci-fi, and military related movies. I don't fret about where/what I eat as long as it's relatively healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Time with family (especially my 19 y.o. son and elderly parents), music, a reliable vehicle (age/model is not an issue), summer sun, and a climate controlled house (at least heat/cool) with indoor plumbing, and hot showers with great water pressure.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Very few things. I prefer to not linger on any event outside of my direct control. I prep...but won't dwell.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's just another night in the week. So I'm either hanging out at home working on a project, reading, watching a movie OR I'm at work. I prefer to do things during the week when the lines are shorter. Weekends can be a zoo.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Good question for when we meet.
You should message me if
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Drop me a line if: you want a solid, long term, monogamous relationship; think we're a good match (regardless of the site ratings); you want to know more about me; or would like to arrange a meeting sometime and see what happens. But remember there is no meeting or message traffic without a picture posted on your profile as described above.