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TOC80003

45 / M / Gay / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Hi. Thanks for stopping by.

I've created an exciting life for myself - full of hills and valleys. I've often jumped into things without thinking them through...the antithesis of how my father raised me, which is exactly why I have done so. As life has progressed I've become a little more discerning, but I still like to think I'm an adventurous person.

I'm very comfortable spending time by myself so the real adventure now is making room for someone else. I do think it's important to create a family of one's own and that is what I'm looking for here. I would love to meet a guy who comes from a big and loving family.

I'd like to re-create that sense of home that I had growing up with someone who can challenge me and I him as well as inspire, laugh and love with.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to be a good person and contribute something to the planet before I leave it.
I’m really good at
Making lasagna.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes - I'm blessed with my fathers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books -Le Petite Prince, Einstein's Dreams, The Art of Possibility
Films - The Wizard of Oz, Men Don't Leave, Amelie, Little Voice, Millions, The Color Purple, HappyThankyouMorePlease, Liberal Arts, Most PIXAR films
Shows- Enlightened, The Rachel Maddow Show, Moyers and Company, Six Feet Under, thirtysomething, St. Elsewhere
Music - Keith Jarrett, Lizz Wright, Thomas Newman, Bright Light Bright Light
Food - Indian, Italian, Mexican, French etc.
The six things I could never do without
Food, Air, Company, Laughter, Music, Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
being with a really hairy man! I love VERY hairy guys. So I'm hoping my guy will be :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Open to see what moves me.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 38–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're open to meeting. I'm not one for back and forth messaging. I think it's better to meet sooner than later as the real chemistry can't be measured in surveys or profiles.