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46 M Casper, WY

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
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Graduated from masters program
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Has kids
English, German (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Creative. Funny. Spontaneous. Counselor. Educator. Actor. Director. Good with kids. Romantic to a Fault (to a fault). Cooks (yes, you can take that more than one way). Makes a mean martini. Pours a nice glass of wine. Opens a beer rather nonchalantly. Invented the personalized intuitive collage called Goog'lage. Draws mandalas. Draws conclusions which can sometimes be a little fuzzy. The boy can dance. Sends out Groundhog Day cards instead of Christmas cards: one) because I was always late with the Christmas cards and two) because I really like Groundhog Day.

That's all. But I was just summarizing.
What I’m doing with my life
Making it better with each day.
Have a goal - now just have to create the path.
I’m really good at
Being present with another person. Very tender and very attentive.

Making hors 'd' oeuvres (and spelling it).

Sucking a pimento out of an olive (a skill that comes in handy for other reasons I won't expound on right now...).

Creating laughter. Just like tipping that can over and making it go "Moooooo!"
The first things people usually notice about me
My stream of consciousness sense of humor. My big brown eyes (some say they look like sunflowers)... Oh, and for some reason women like to run their fingers through my hair... Don't know why, but I let them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: "A Prayer for Owen Meany" and most John Irving books, "Immortality" and most Milan Kundera books, "Poisonwood Bible" Barbara Kingsolver, poetry by Rainer Rilke and Mary Oliver... I also enjoy writing stories, poetry, and plays. I have two children's books in the publication process (Edgar Allan Poe as a kid). Recently read, "Rules of Civility" and "The Elegance of the Hedgehog" - recommending both to anyone who will listen.

Movies & TV: Moonrise Kingdom and most Wes Anderson, Dr. Horrible's Sing a Long Blog and most Joss Whedon, The Fisher King and most movies with Jeff Bridges, newly hooked by House of Cards with Kevin Spacey and Robin Wright, Sherlock (BBC), Night on Earth, Sherlock Holmes w Robert Downey Jr and Jude Law, Amelie, Princess Bride, Elf, Groundhog's Day

Music: Pretty eclectic - I like what I like - (I was a dj in college so I was fond of music in the late 80's and 90's) Barenaked Ladies, Dave Matthews Band, REM, The Cars, Neil Diamond (yes, there's the private thing I'm willing to admit), Joe Jackson, swing music, Jack Johnson, Sarah MacLachlan, Aimee Mann, Paul Simon (incredible in concert), the Smiths, They Might Be Giants, Billy Joel, Tom Petty, Elvis Costello, David Bowie, Prince, Earth, Wind and Fire, Marvin Gaye

The above is only a slight sampling...
The six things I could never do without
1) my son & daughter
2) passion/compassion
3) intuition
4) sense of humor
5) people I can trust on one hand
(The people aren't ON my hand, but the friends I keep closest to me I can usually count on one hand, maybe two - then I run out of fingers and it takes too much time to take off my shoes)
6) art/expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why is it that your shoelace always breaks when you really don't have the time to put in a new one?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Let's put this into context.
This should read: you should message me BACK if... Because it appears to me the guy is supposed to do the initial messaging... And THEN you should message me BACK... IF you are not afraid of laughing so hard while drinking a beverage that it might come through your nose or you might do a spit take... IF you don't mind someone who really cares about who you are and what you want to be and will listen intently to you as you tell him... IF 2+2 are 4 and sometimes 5 (but we can get through it together)... IF A, E, I, O, U and sometimes Y (or Q because I like that letter). And finally, because you'd like to meet a guy you find attractive.