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55 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 41–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:55pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I have a full and busy life. I'm a happy camper and ready to share life's journey with a kindred spirit. I can best be described as a Renaissance Man -- I love the theatre, live music of just about any genre, and the arts.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've been in my profession for a couple decades and still have passion for my work. Even though I enjoy a certain level of success in my chosen career, there's always room for improvement and I am a staunch advocate of life-long learning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at my job; I'm a relatively good drummer (I've been playing since age six -- and boy are my arms tired!); and I'm pretty good at not taking myself too seriously and finding the humor in life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm 6' 2" and built like a football player -- even though I played only briefly (and badly) in junior high school and have no interest in professional sports -- so the first thing people notice is my presence. The second thing they usually notice is my laugh. I laugh a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Current and recent reading material includes: "Community: The Structure of Belonging" by Peter Block; "Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-being" by Martin Seligman; and "Delivering Happiness: A Path to Profits, Passion and Purpose" by Tony Hsieh

I have a broad spectrum of musical tastes and go to a lot of concerts -- everything from punk rock to cool jazz.

I love going to the movies! I particularly enjoy comedy (e.g. Judd Apatow), drama and psychological thrillers.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) the love and support of my family
2) true and loyal friends
3) meaningful work
4) transportation
5) clothes
6) the occassional indulgence of Ben & Jerry's
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
visiting friends, at a concert, or catching the latest movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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