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TQH-1

54 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:47am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I have a full and busy life. I'm a happy camper and ready to share life's journey with a kindred spirit. I can best be described as a Renaissance Man -- I love the theatre, live music of just about any genre, and the arts.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been in my profession for a couple decades and still have passion for my work. Even though I enjoy a certain level of success in my chosen career, there's always room for improvement and I am a staunch advocate of life-long learning.
I’m really good at
I'm good at my job; I'm a relatively good drummer (I've been playing since age six -- and boy are my arms tired!); and I'm pretty good at not taking myself too seriously and finding the humor in life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm 6' 2" and built like a football player -- even though I played only briefly (and badly) in junior high school and have no interest in professional sports -- so the first thing people notice is my presence. The second thing they usually notice is my laugh. I laugh a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Current and recent reading material includes: "Community: The Structure of Belonging" by Peter Block; "Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-being" by Martin Seligman; and "Delivering Happiness: A Path to Profits, Passion and Purpose" by Tony Hsieh

I have a broad spectrum of musical tastes and go to a lot of concerts -- everything from punk rock to cool jazz.

I love going to the movies! I particularly enjoy comedy (e.g. Judd Apatow), drama and psychological thrillers.
The six things I could never do without
1) the love and support of my family
2) true and loyal friends
3) meaningful work
4) transportation
5) clothes
6) the occassional indulgence of Ben & Jerry's
On a typical Friday night I am
visiting friends, at a concert, or catching the latest movie
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 41–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you'd like to chat