I was the proud and inspired owner of NYC's only Afro Peruvian Jazz club. I had it for 3 years and then......I got sick. Yeah..cancer sucks but I am in recovery now and I have learned that you need to take care of yourself before you do anything else in life. So I decided to close my club, and focus on my health. Now, after a year of being sick, treatments and recovering, I decided it's time to take care of my heart. ***UPDATE: As of April 26, my last scan says I'm cancer free! Here's to hoping that will continue. :)

I updated my profile to include my illness because I want to be upfront about it. In case it would make you uncomfortable to be with me. If it does, well fuck you. You're a douche...If it doesn't, then you're an awesome person!

This all means I'm very serious about my health, eating healthy and exercising. I would hope you are too....obviously smoking is a disgusting dirty habit that I feel you should have the absolute right to do...except if you're around me. And no, I don't have access to medical marijuana....so please don't ask.

I am still a happy, fun-loving and caring person who wants only positive people in her life. Now it is more important than ever.
I love meeting new people, experiencing new things, and overcoming challenges. I am looking for beauty to add to my life. Someone to hang out with and expose me to new things. Oh....and I would really love to have incredible, mind blowing, sex with someone who can keep up with me and my drive.

Ideally, I am looking for someone who wants a casual yet consistent relationship. What does that mean? That means while I would like to go out to bars or movies or ride bikes together I don't want to meet your parents (I am sure they are lovely people). I also would like someone to be intimate with that won't treat me like a hole in a restroom wall. As much as that is a joke, the truth is I do want a sex partner that can treat me with respect at all times. Just because I am sex positive, does not mean I don't deserve consideration and affection from a lover even if we are not completely monogamous or serious.

Still not sure what the hell I'm talking about? Then just message me and ask!

Now that I don't own the club any longer I focus on lots of cool things that I really enjoy. I now promote and curate events throughout NYC, book amazing artists and take fans to Peru on tours. I love to travel and try to do so every chance I get. My last trip was to Peru this past January 2013.

Bossing people around....(natural born leader. I have the nursery school report to prove it!)

I also have a gift for understanding accents. Not exactly a super power or anything but it comes in handy on occasion.

I'm good at making people feel comfortable around me. I am very friendly so I like to make people feel at ease.

Convincing people to do things they want to do but don't think they should.

Now that me and my conjoined twin have been separated and she is traveling through Europe (the slut) I would say my sarcasm, kindness and nice rack.

I think I have really nice teeth too. Have you checked out my award-winning smile yet!?!

For some reason, I find this section very annoying. Therefore I refuse to fill it out.

That said, please know that I do read, watch movies, listen to music and eat. When we meet, we can discuss it in much greater detail.

Great Friends, Awesome Sex, Good Food, Good Drinks, Love, and the internet.

How I can make myself a better person, learning from my mistakes ( I make WAY too many), and why I couldn't have been born rich instead of beautiful. If you seriously think the last part of that sentence was sincere...then you should NOT write me.

Why so many men write about being on OKC as if it was a dare or they were forced at gunpoint to create a profile. Is it supposed to be embarrassing to be on a dating site? I didn't get that memo. Now I'm not embarrassed. How embarrassing.....

Enjoying myself in whatever strikes my fancy!

On a typical Friday night I am NOT:
-going to a rave (do they even have those anymore?)
-reading the bible (God forgive me)
-in a 3 way with Brad Pitt, David Tennant, and Jack Harkness (points if you know who Jack Harkness is!)* **

*Technically that is more like a 4 way but whatever....
**But God would I love to be...

I really love 80's music.

If you have a face picture I can see on your profile. If my picture is available for you to see, then so should yours.

You live in New York...or at least relatively close by. I have no issues with Ohio, Pennsylvania or Canada...but I would rather not travel 3 hours to have a cup of coffee.

I am such a social creature! I need interaction so if you send me a message that reads "hey." I don't really know what to do with that other than ignore it. Please actually have something to say. Please! ...and for the love of God....know how to have a conversation!

Can write me a message that has at least 1 or more coherent sentences using actual words. Like "are" and "you". Not "R" or "U". Kind of a personal pet peeve and frankly a turn off.

If you intend on letting me speak when on a date and not discuss your plans to find your "future ex-wife".