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41 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36-48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:09pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A writer friend of mine said when writing, I should imaging the audience I'm talking to and write to them. So this is to you ....future friend, boyfriend, lover or the guy who will inevitably send me a picture of his penis.

I want what everyone wants. Someone to spend time with, someone who will want to know how my day was and what is happening in my life. Someone who sees me as I really am - AWESOME!

I know what you're thinking, she is quite insane. Yes, this is possibly true but the thing is, I am pretty sweet. I am that person who you will look for in times of happiness and hardship. I am kind and empathetic...maybe to a fault. I try to improve myself and struggle to not let my self doubt get the better of me. So I see the positive side of mostly everything. I'm witty and can take a joke as well as dish one out. I would love to find someone to add some sunshine to my day...and some fun at night! ( the guy who wants to send me his penis pic is paying attention now)

I'm very serious about my health, eating healthy and exercising. I would hope you are too....obviously smoking is a disgusting dirty habit that I feel you should have the absolute right to do...except if you're around me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What do I do? Well I was the proud and inspired owner of NYC's only Afro Peruvian Jazz club. I had it for 3 years and then......I got sick. Yeah..cancer sucks but I am in recovery now and I have learned that you need to take care of yourself before you do anything else in life. So I decided to close my club, and focus on my health.

Now that I don't own the club any longer I focus on lots of cool things that I really enjoy. I promote and curate events throughout NYC and book amazing artists. As of January 2014 I have become the general manager of an amazing Peruvian restaurant. I'm such a lucky girl!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Bossing people around....(natural born leader. I have the nursery school report to prove it!)

I also have a gift for understanding accents. Not exactly a super power but it comes in handy on occasion.

I'm good at making people feel comfortable around me. I am very friendly so I like to make people feel at ease.

Convincing people to do things they want to do but don't think they should.

Recently, aerial fitness! I really love to hang upside down.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm short? Incredibly sexy? I sometimes wear glasses? Most people think I'm rather witty.....the ones who don't are obviously stupid.

I think I have really nice teeth too. Have you checked out my award-winning smile yet!?!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For some reason, I find this section very annoying. Therefore I refuse to fill it out.

That said, please know that I do read, watch movies, listen to music and eat. When we meet, we can discuss it in much greater detail.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Granted these aren't things you can buy...but they are the most important and most precious to me.

Great Friends
Awesome Sex
My intuition
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can make myself a better person, learning from my mistakes ( I make WAY too many), and if only if I could come up with a sarcasm font. I would be a millionaire and the coolest person on the planet.

Why do people lie so much? I would much rather know the "horrible" truth than the lie.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I find it easier to answer what I'm not doing on a typical Friday. So here's my list of what I am NOT doing on a typical Friday night :

-going to a rave (do they even have those anymore?)
-reading the bible (God forgive me)
-signing up for Starfleet academy. (Sigh...I would be a kick-ass captain)
-resting....Fridays are work nights now!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really love 80's music.

I will also say that I really would love to find a special person. I know you are all special snowflakes but I want to find my snowflake. Not just the flake....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm a simple woman. I only ask that you have a face picture I can see on your profile.

You live in New York...or at least relatively close by. I have no issues with Ohio, Pennsylvania or Canada...but I would rather not travel 3 hours to have a cup of coffee.

I am such a social creature! I need interaction so if you send me a message that reads "hey." I don't really know what to do with that other than ignore it. Please actually have something to say. Please! ...and for the love of God....know how to have a conversation!

You can refrain from sending me a photo of your penis until at least after we have a date. Especially if your penis is particularly underwhelming.

You have the ability to write me a message that has at least one or more coherent sentences using actual words. Like "are" and "you". Not "R" or "U". Kind of a personal pet peeve and frankly a turn off.

You want to have a real relationship with someone.