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41 • New York, NY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 36–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 8:11pm
- 5′ 1″ (1.55m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Okay)
I want what everyone wants. Someone to spend time with, someone who will want to know how my day was and what is happening in my life. Someone who sees me as I really am - AWESOME!
I know what you're thinking, she is quite insane. Yes, this is possibly true but the thing is, I am pretty sweet. I am that person who you will look for in times of happiness and hardship. I am kind and empathetic...maybe to a fault. I try to improve myself and struggle to not let my self doubt get the better of me. So I see the positive side of mostly everything. I'm witty and can take a joke as well as dish one out. I would love to find someone to add some sunshine to my day...and some fun at night! ( the guy who wants to send me his penis pic is paying attention now)
I'm very serious about my health, eating healthy and exercising. I would hope you are too....obviously smoking is a disgusting dirty habit that I feel you should have the absolute right to do...except if you're around me.
Now that I don't own the club any longer I focus on lots of cool things that I really enjoy. I promote and curate events throughout NYC and book amazing artists. As of January 2014 I have become the general manager of an amazing Peruvian restaurant. I'm such a lucky girl!
I also have a gift for understanding accents. Not exactly a super power but it comes in handy on occasion.
I'm good at making people feel comfortable around me. I am very friendly so I like to make people feel at ease.
Convincing people to do things they want to do but don't think they should.
I think I have really nice teeth too. Have you checked out my award-winning smile yet!?!
That said, please know that I do read, watch movies, listen to music and eat. When we meet, we can discuss it in much greater detail.
Why do people lie so much? I would much rather know the "horrible" truth than the lie.
-going to a rave (do they even have those anymore?)
-reading the bible (God forgive me)
-signing up for Starfleet academy. (Sigh...I would be a kick-ass captain)
-resting....Fridays are work nights now!
I will also say that I really would love to find a special person. I know you are all special snowflakes but I want to find my snowflake. Not just the flake....
You live in New York...or at least relatively close by. I have no issues with Ohio, Pennsylvania or Canada...but I would rather not travel 3 hours to have a cup of coffee.
I am such a social creature! I need interaction so if you send me a message that reads "hey." I don't really know what to do with that other than ignore it. Please actually have something to say. Please! ...and for the love of God....know how to have a conversation!
You can refrain from sending me a photo of your penis until at least after we have a date. Especially if your penis is particularly underwhelming.
You have the ability to write me a message that has at least one or more coherent sentences using actual words. Like "are" and "you". Not "R" or "U". Kind of a personal pet peeve and frankly a turn off.
You want to have a real relationship with someone.
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