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45 M Santa Clara, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 29–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Officially a Nor Cal resident! Loving it.

I'm equal parts outspoken and reserved, self-aware, and proudly walk to the beat of a different drummer. Dig the city vibe, yet also love mountains and oceans. Running and bicycling along the lake, hike in the woods, like to swim on a park bench and read in a pool, prefer movies in theaters and restaurants known for there food versus there scene. Let's whip up a kickass meal together.

Enjoy travel. Love Nor Cal. Latest places are Big Sur and Point Lobos for hiking and camping. Want to set up a tent with me and learn about bear boxes (not to be confused with bear boxers)?

I believe values are more important than having all of the same interests, for it's about trying what the other likes and also being selfless enough to let them enjoy those things guilt free. What's your feeling?

Love a woman who has a unique outlook on life. Who will surprise me (and I will do the same). She has passions. Can be philosophical. Is articulate. Mysterious. Sexy. Goofy. Assertive. A good person. Naughtiness encouraged, too.

By the way, the "staff robot" that puts together the personality traits section doesn't know squat, or e-squat, as it were. What it says about mine is amusing, yet completely off. Computers. Meh.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing advertising and marketing copy. Learning. Exploring. Giving. Growing. Taking it one day at a time.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Height. Eyes. Smile. Laugh. Hands. Voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Let's share that goodness in person. Got to leave some mystery, you know?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
More than six....sleep, funny moments, the outdoors (mountains and oceans in particular), sunshine, my imagination, friends/family, self awareness, humor, compassion, intimacy, affection, spontaneity, emotional intelligence, growth, depth, sharing, warmth, integrity, taking risks, laughter, passion, playfulness, confidence, open communication, acceptance...

Can do without

Convention, unrealistic expectations, assumptions, control freaks, love-to-arguers, social conditioning, the relationship escalator, melodrama, guilting, being vetted/interviewed outside of my professional life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
those cool bookshelves that magically turn, leading to a hiding place with just the tilt of a book, assuming you can guess which one it is. And a lot of other things, like how to become a better person with every day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
being atypical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If dating or getting to know you means being vetted for marriage, fatherhood, financial provider potential, etc., then please skip past me. While I respect those choices, I do not ascribe to them.
You should message me if
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you are committed to a life of personal growth, are curious about the world, and excited for new adventures. All big turn-ons for me.

Sharing moments makes life richer. Same with absolutely zero melodrama. If saying hell yeah to seeing where today goes and what tomorrow brings appeals to you, then hit me up.

"To experience love that is a celebration, and not an obligation."