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31 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 5:23pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), German (Poorly), Afrikaans (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I once had a stand-off with a Triad boss in China over him trying to get me to eat fried scorpions. A few days later I told him to fuck off. I'll tell you why in person.

I love puns but it's hard to explain puns to kleptomaniacs because they always take things literally. Feel free to steal this joke.

I like to make (things, a difference, out, a fool of myself, moves, believe, love, mistakes, dinner, friends, some NOIIIIIIISE!)

I've jumped off the highest bungee jump in the world when I was studying art in South Africa.

I play hockey. My nickname back in high school was the oriental express. It's totally racist, but it made me feel like a badass.

I have a Super Nintendo that's hooked up to a projector.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm making films, art, acting, cooking and enjoying life. If you're interested in some of the things I've done, here's a link to my website:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. Cooking is the best art because you eat it, you use all of your senses and it brings people together. Oh, and it pairs well with drinking.

Working with my hands. I have tools, saws, drills and the world around me is always malleable.

Oyster happy hours. I can easily consume at least two dozen.

Dancing - I was recently in a random dance-off at a bar and the guy I battled bought me a beer after because I took the guy to school.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My big ass smile. Then my freckles. Yes, I am Asian with freckles. I also have a fro if I leave my hair long. Don't box me in because I will break down that box and recycle it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Léon: The Professional - Beautiful love story. Natalie Portman is amazing.
Terminator 2 - time travel, machines, liquid metal, the fate of mankind.
The Place Beyond the Pines - A movie about how our actions today echo in the lives the next generations.
Lost in Translation - Brilliant in tackling the issue of loneliness in a foreign country.
Another Earth - A brilliant movie about redemption and our identities.
True Romance - The scene where Patricia Arquette stabs James Gandolfini with a wine opener, that's true love.
Survive Style 5+ - One fucked up, stylized Japanese flick that more people need to know about.

Calvin and Hobbes - makes any bad day bearable. Haruki Murakami - His style in depicting Japanese loneliness is unmatched, Tom Robbins - His facts, his story, his characters. Purfume - The Story of a Murderer, Crazy Rich Asians - Guilty Pleasure, The Day of the Jackal, A Prayer for Owen Meany and tons of non-fiction to satiate my curiosity.

Music: Funk, Hip- Hop (I used to be a B-Boy), electronic, downtempo, Rage Against the Machine (before a hockey game), Amy Winehouse. My favorite song to Karaoke: Pixies - Debaser

Food: I cook spicy Sichuan Chinese food, make sashimi/sushi. I live and breathe the experience of good food and you better be able to handle spicy. Oysters.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Ocean

Six ain't nuthin' but a number.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why is it that we just don't pass through things. Because we're made of atoms and those atoms are 99.999999999999% empty space. Duh, I know it's because of the charge of electrons but it's still cool to think about.

Time Travel.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to be a window dancer.
You should message me if
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You like dive bars and diners. Your ambitions are high and your jokes are in the gutter. You have as much fun dressed up as you do dressed down. You're curious about the world and you want to just have a fucking good time. Let's play.