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48 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 48–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:58am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Because I’m upfront and honest, you should know that I just turned 54. I'm grateful for the wisdom, but not so much for the actual number. Ha! I realize those are just words, but I changed my age for search purposes. Besides, I don't look anywhere near my age in person (I can back this up, so you won't be disappointed) and I’m a late bloomer with a very young spirit.

My field is dominated by people much younger, so I feel fortunate to be seen as a peer and a mentor. I'm a TV producer (with a focus on comedy) and I added talent management to my company a year ago. I like to tap into my spontaneous, goofy side and keep things fun. After all, laughter is a key ingredient to a relationship, among many other things!

I think all this factors into why I relate best to people in my preferred age range. I'm rather easy going with a calm presence and have tremendous patience. I've always been that way, perhaps due in part of my artistic side. And as I've gotten older, I have learned to practice (not perfect though) the art of "simply living in the moment." Perhaps that's why many people (both sexes) have told me that I'm quite different than other women and admire my emotional strength (I get reminded of this from time to time and it's so greatly appreciated). I like to think I'm a source of comfort to my family and friends, who seek advice from me. When I do need to lean on someone, I found myself attracted to those I respect and admire.

I feel fortunate that dating and sex come easily, but having a deeper connection brings more value and joy. Of course, that takes time and I'm not in a hurry. It's about enjoying the journey with someone you care about.

In 2005, I had my most life altering moment to date - I became a kidney donor for my best friend and then had the unique opportunity to share our story on Oprah. If I could do it again, I would do it without hesitation.

I'm often asked why I'm still single and my response is: "Have you ever lived in Los Angeles?" I basically gave up my dating life in my late 20s-40s for my career. No regrets - can't really dwell on the past. And I "grew up" there. The lack of dating in LA was a big factor in moving back east. I'm not the type to just settle. Who wants that?

**IMPORTANT NOTE: If you even read this far, thanks and please live in or around Manhattan. There are plenty of people here, so there's no need to pursue long distance relationships. Also please respect my preferred age range (shout out to the 20 and 30 somethings - zero interest, not ever happening).
What I’m doing with my life
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I love what I do for a living and that includes research: going to comedy shows, watching TV and films, working with writers, developing talent/ideas and creating opportunities. Among my favorite things: I'm an avid self taught, fearless knitter (I'm not afraid to make mistakes, rip them out and start over), reading, working out, cooking/baking (healthy stuff or converting recipes into healthy versions), walking around and exploring all the city has to offer with friends or on my own.
I’m really good at
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being a job...listening, communicating, being optimistic, being patient, writing other people's resumes, giving advice (unsolicited sometimes), knitting, cooking. I'll have to update this!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Blue-green eyes, height, cheek bones and hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love many things too numerous to mention!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The people closest to me, work (because it really is fun), what to knit next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What's typical...I live in the greatest city on earth!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've never eaten a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, not even as a child.
You should message me if
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You believe there might be a mutual attraction, commonality and you are genuinely interested in dating with the idea of a potential relationship. You remain hopeful that most people are interested in presenting their authentic selves and are actively pursing relationships, which is what the site intended...