Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a Christian man that is earnestly trying to live a life
pleasing to God. I'm kinda hoping < insert sarcasm here> that
He has a woman set aside for me as He continues to work in my life.
Me being single for so long, I have found it can be a full-time job
& very tempting to just live for the moment. So I'm trying to
place dating in it's right perspective. I also have two teenage
kids that have a hard time believing that I was once a teenager.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a former Marine that's gone from slinging a rifle for 13 years,
to slinging a book bag. I've been working my way towards my second
career in life (criminal justice). I also stay pretty faithful to
my fitness goals as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to organize & come up with ways to improve things. Doc
says it's only a minor disorder. Okay, so as you can tell, humor is
something I'm not good at. But I do love dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My butt & chest!
What? I was just copying what some women put on here. Actually, it
would probably be that I'm short for a guy. I bet you're going to
look at my height now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I guess the Bible would have to fall in here. For the most part, I
read it on a daily basis. I'm more of the self help book kind.
Anything from "His Needs Her Needs" to fitness, to history.
I'm not much of a television watcher. But I am fond of a character
in NCIS. As a Marine, I find the patriotism tear-jerking. I was in
the Marine Corps for 13 years, & it is the most wonderful
feeling in the world to be a part of something like that. On a more
personal note, Mark Harmon's character is exactly what I would want
to be. He was a proud & successful Marine that moved on to
continue his duty for his country as a federal agent. Just his
reserved no nonsense character adds to his physical
Music is something that I'm rather passionate about because I have
such a love for dancing. So I can appreciate any music that I can
As far as food, I like anything...especially my Aunt Nita's
lasagna. I'm not a health nut, but I know the benefits of eating
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I guess everything past that are just wants, hopes, and desires.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about my kids & how I am as a dad. In five to ten
years, what will my kids have to say about their dad?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not doing what I was doing 10 years ago.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I laugh so hard in my sleep that I wake myself up.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
An empty shell of beautiful looks & figure certainly can not
make a guy happy. But I'm a firm believer that you HAVE to be
physically attracted to the that special one you plan on spending
the rest of your life with. On the other hand, I am very attracted
to a woman that is intelligent, confident (not cocky), slightly
reserved, & full of character. I would love to meet a woman
that knows she has it together & not still playing with drama.
Many people say that they hate drama, but doesn't seem to know what
causes it. As you ease into an exclusive relationship from dating,
I think the most important thing is being open & honest. Dating
multiple people at the same time is a thing of the past by then
& caring for someone other than just yourself should be a
priority. I mean you are working on creating a relationship where
you are putting that other person before yourself. If that's not
the goal, there are plenty of sex & casual dating sites where
you can find someone to have a fling with. Coasting through, just
doing what feels comfortable doesn't cut it. There's this thing
called the "love bank" and you better be putting in more deposits
than withdrawals. Both should be striving to outdo the other in
showing their dedication & love for them.
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