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39 M Lubbock, TX

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a Christian man that is earnestly trying to live a life pleasing to God. I'm kinda hoping < insert sarcasm here> that He has a woman set aside for me as He continues to work in my life. Me being single for so long, I have found it can be a full-time job & very tempting to just live for the moment. So I'm trying to place dating in it's right perspective. I do have two teenage kids, & would love to tell more about them as we got to know each other.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a former Marine that's gone from slinging a rifle for 13 years to slinging a book bag. I've been working my way into my second career in life (criminal justice), so I lead a slightly awkward schedule as a full time student & work an operations job at night. I also stay pretty faithful to my fitness goals as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I hate that this is the first thing that comes to mind, but I like to organize & come up with ways to improve. But I do love dancing. Almost any kind of couples dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My butt & chest!
Oh wait... That's the typical woman's response.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I guess the Bible would have to fall in here. For the most part, I read it on a daily basis. I'm more of the self help book kind. Anything from "His Needs Her Needs" to fitness, to history.
I'm not much of a television watcher. But I am fond of a character in NCIS. As a Marine, I find the patriotism tear-jerking. I was in the Marine Corps for 13 years, & it is the most wonderful feeling in the world to be a part of something like that. On a more personal note, Mark Harmon's character is exactly what I would want to be. He was a proud & successful Marine that moved on to continue his duty for his country as a federal agent. Just his reserved no nonsense character adds to his physical attractiveness.
Music is something that I'm rather passionate about because I have such a love for dancing. So I can appreciate any music that I can dance to.
As far as food, I like anything that is good for me...and bad for me. I try to avoid anything fried or processed. I'm not a health nut, but I know the benefits of eating right. I love my Aunt Nita's lasagna though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God's direction
My kids
I guess everything past that are just wants, hopes, and desires.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about my kids & how I am as a dad. In five to ten years, what will my kids have to say about their dad?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my schedule being so busy during the week, I SHOULD be studying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I laugh so hard in my sleep sometimes that I wake myself up.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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An empty shell of beautiful looks & figure certainly can not make a guy happy. But I'm a firm believer that you HAVE to be physically attracted to the that special one you plan on spending the rest of your life with. On the other hand, I am very attracted to a woman that is intelligent, confident (not cocky), slightly reserved, & full of character. I would love to meet a woman that knows she has it together & not still playing with drama. Many people say that they hate drama, but doesn't seem to know what causes it. As you ease into an exclusive relationship from dating, I think the most important thing is being open & honest. Dating multiple people at the same time is a thing of the past by then & caring for someone other than just yourself should be a priority. I mean you are working on creating a relationship where you are putting that other person before yourself. If that's not the goal, there are plenty of sex & casual dating sites where you can find someone to have a fling with. Coasting through, just doing what feels comfortable doesn't cut it. There's this thing called the "love bank" and you better be putting in more deposits than withdrawals. Both should be striving to outdo the other in showing their dedication & love for them.