Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I wondered when doing this how does one not sound egotistical when
completing one of these things?
Well here goes, I'm a soon to be divorced father of 4 wonderful
kids ranging in age from 6 to 12 so if you don't like kids then I'm
not your guy since they live with me. I don't have a lot of drama
in my life and wish to keep it that way.
I hate to argue but will disagree with you from time to time, but I
am logical and will listen to your point of view and am man enough
to admit if I am wrong.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working on my final leg of a very rewarding law enforcement
career. I retired once and relocated here to Kentucky after an
incredible career which allowed me to experience a great many
things and make some very wonderful friends. I worked in law
enforcement here and am presently a candidate for sheriff in the
county I reside in. Presently I am working from home and doing the
campaign thing. when I'm off I'm usually spending time working
around the house. It's not bad but like most things will always be
a work in progress (seems like the more DIY Channel I watch the
more I want to change).
I'm raising my 4 kids into what I hope are wonderful productive
adults. I'm fortunate in that they are all healthy, bright and
I do get some "ME" time and would enjoy having someone to share it
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, laundry, housework, etc... Yes my lasanga is probably
better than yours. I am a Mr. Mom in my situation is not a choice
it is a responsibility, which I wouldn't change for anything in the
I might also add I often come off as a bit of a smart ass and can
be a bit cynical, but that's a career hazard that they won't give
you disability for. (-:
Other than that I'm a pretty easy going fellow who just want's what
everyone here wants. The happily ever after if it does exist,
perhaps one day I'll be fortunate enough to find out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm pretty straight forward, honest, and a What ya see is what
ya get kinda guy. I don't lie, won't cheat and won't play games
with your emotions. I'm not your typical male as you will find out
if you take the time to get to know me. I would hope you would
appreciate that and treat me the same way.
I call things pretty much like I see them and I won't sugar coat
things. I am compassionate but not foolish, I'm able to read people
relatively quickly and can pretty much tell in the first few
moments of seeing you if your truly going to be honest with me or
not. Again that whole law enforcement training in interview and
interrogation thing rears it's head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a good bit of true crime and also technical manuals usually
for a project(s) I am working on. I do a great deal of technical
writing and have also done some adult fiction (ask me if you wish
and I'll send you some of it) I enjoy shows like criminal minds,
pretty much anything on discovery, and with kids I have my share of
Spongebob, Phineas and Ferb, Scooby Doo and things like that.
My music tastes range from Country (modern) to Vivaldi I don't do
rap though but the radio is usually on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, my health, my friends (they are a close second to my
kids!), my crafty nature, my past which has shaped me into the
person I am today and My future which is waiting to be explored.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human behavior and why women tend to leave a decent relationship
for one with a guy who treats them like crap? I just don't get that
whatsoever. Aren't there any women out there who would enjoy a man
who treats them like a lady?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually after settling the kids if the weather is nice I'm sitting
on the deck watching the stars ( they are actually incredible
here), enjoying either a glass of wine or a cold beer.
Wondering when our paths will cross and if your ready for the
adventure that awaits us.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I admitted it then it wouldn't be private now would it?
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 37–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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If your attractive, articulate, and looking for someone who is
grounded and ready to get on with the next chapter of life and
would like to go along for the adventure.
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