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43 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm originally from the Bay Area, and I have a lot of extended family locally, which is really nice. I also like to spend time with my friends. Both, are very important to me, and I'd say I'm a loyal type of guy. I am / was close with my grandparents. They were so good to me. I have one younger brother, and we're close as well. I like to do almost anything outside, whether it's hiking, surfing, or skiing. But, I can equally sit on the beach do nothing. I like to be fit and eat well. Laughing is a good way to make it through a tough day and it's contagious.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living a balanced life. Staying Fit. Staying connected to my family. I'm pretty outgoing, but I've been spending more time with a smaller group of friends. I'd like to really know who they are and what's important to them. And, I'd like them to know the same things about me. For one of my birthdays I rented a house (with a pool of course) for the weekend up in Healdsburg. I invited about 10 of my closest friends, my brother, and my parents. Among other things we played spoons for about 2 hours and laughed the whole time. I recently taught a buddy how to fly fish. On my last scuba trip, I went to Cancun with a small group of close friends. The scuba diving is surprisingly good in Cancun, which makes sense since it's close to Cozumel and on the same reef as Belize. Last Fall, I spent 9 days on Kauai with another small group of close friends for some fantastic long boarding and some island R&R.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Chopsticks, listening, skiing, sailing, swimming, volleyball, foot massages, driving the water ski boat to lost isle, scuba.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair, and it pains me to answer this question.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read as much as I would like, but I do have a big stack of books in my bookcase. :) Last books were Wild & Unbroken. Short list: A Walk in the Woods by Bill Bryson, A Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, The Living Sea by Jacques Cousteau, Born to Run.

Food: Sushi, Mexican, anything salad, home cooked is always better.

Movies: Maleficent bombed in the reviews, but I thought it was fantastic. Princess Bride (mandatory:). I think everyone should see Zero Dark Thirty. The Hangover, Field of Dreams, The Cove, there are a lot of excellent documentaries out there.

Shows: Game of Thrones, How I Met Your Mother, most things on the Discovery Channel, 60 Minutes, TED Talks although these are online.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
My friends
The ocean and rivers to swim in
The mountains to roam
Huevos Rancheros
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Planning for the future. My next big trip: back to Europe or maybe Southeast Asia. I need to be better at proof reading :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully out with my friends having a good time, staying out medium late so I can get up medium early and enjoy the week end. Or, I might go the gym and then home for dinner.
You should message me if
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If you are interested in really getting to know each other and laughing a lot. If family is important to you. If you’re affectionate. If you like both the mountains and the beach. And, if you’re looking for a fun, loyal partner in crime for life’s adventures.