I'm a big believer that smart is sexy; looks will only carry you so
far. I'm finding that as I get older, the mental outweighs the
physical on so many levels. That is not to say that physical
attraction is not important, it's just not all about looks. I am
looking for new friends, both male and female. I just recently
moved from Napa, California to Lubbock and I am still adjusting to
I am a huge animal lover of all varieties.... that's not to say
that I won't kill a snake if it comes near me but that is hardly
the same thing, right. LOL.
I'm a bit old fashioned in that I enjoy "waiting on my man". I love
to cook and spoil.
I'm very curvy but toned and I am in the gym numerous times per
week as well. I consider myself intelligent as well as a lady,
different attitudes and persona's, as is appropriate for the
situation. I possess a quick wit, can be an occasional smart-a**.
I’m looking for a man that I can have great conversations with
ranging from political views, to sex, to venting about life and
jobs... being able to talk about anything. If you’ve had a great
day at work, I want to hear about it, bad day at work, that too.
Someone who has the patience to build a relationship no matter what
type of relationship that might be. Someone who is just as
comfortable discussing Quantum Physics as he is discussing politics
or how he thinks the Stars or Kings will do this year.... someone
who also enjoy's quiet time as well.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm not looking for a relationship per se, right this second. More
someone to have some fun with. (IF the chemistry is there, the
relationship will happen on its own, if not I'm up for new friends
too. For me, this is not an either/or situation.) A game of tennis,
kayaking, debating, working out. I enjoy activity...doing something
physical. Riding horses or motorcycles, kayaking, hiking, camping,
a festival of some kind, boating, the theatre, having friends over
for a cookout...doing something fun. I am an odd girl in that I am
equally comfortable camping in a tent as I am in formal attire at
our local black and white ball. Very versatile. I love camping and
I'm a definite water baby... love being beside the water whether a
pool, lake, river or ocean.
I volunteered a lot for several different charities when time
I’m really good at
I'm blessed that I'm good at a lot of things...except perhaps math.
LOL. I love to cook and plan menu's. I'm pretty good at copying
dishes from places when I go out to eat. I love to play tennis. I
wouldn't say that I'm really good at it but the desire is certainly
there. I also took up golf last summer and love it. I don't shoot
far but I do shoot straight.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think people notice my personality and perhaps my confidence
level. I have a pretty outgoing personality. I'm usually the person
speaking up when other people are still debating it... especially
if it is regarding something that I think is unjust or unfair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Way too many books to list here..or anywhere. I love to read. Same
with movies although even though I occasionally enjoy a "chick
flick", I'd much rather watch action or drama. I adore all types of
music, everything from classical to jazz to country and rock; I
even like some rapp! I'm a definite foodie and a huge cook. If
you're a picky eater we are not going to get along...
The six things I could never do without
Animals of all kinds
Great food and wine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Oh boy... best not to go there... I've been accused, more than once
of "thinking too much". Is that actually possible? I find that most
people don't think enough.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either home relaxing with friends enjoying good food and wine or
curled up watching a movie with my dogs. I'm not a "have to be
going out" all the time girl...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
After having moved back to Texas after having lived in California
for 25 years, I'm still not feeling settled. I don't know that
"West" Texas is going to work for me. I suppose I'll have to wait
You should message me if
You want to make a new friend and would like someone to have fun
with. All of the mushy stuff.... IF there is a mutual physical AND
mental connection will take care of itself in it's own time and in
it's own way- later.