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31 Van Nuys, CA Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 3
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Atheism and it’s important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm currently in a long-term relationship with one partner. I'm not looking for another long-term relationship right now.

I'm a short cis white hetero polyamorous male chocoholic atheist actor originally from the Midwest. I'm 5'3. I work out every morning but eat cake and ice cream in the evening, so I've got an interesting mix of muscle and gut.

The few times it showers here, I am the fool singing in the rain and dancing in the puddles. I miss thunderstorms. I use to open the garage door back in Kansas City and listen to the raindrops hit the pavement. I was born in Michigan, but we moved before I was a year old, so I have no memory or attachment to the state. I've lived in Kansas, Oklahoma, and most recently, Missouri. Damn the Royals for making me care about them this year. I moved to LA in 2003, and I now consider it my home.

When my grandpa passed away, I inherited a cat named Snowflake. She's very loquacious, and you will find her hair on every piece of clothing I own.
What I’m doing with my life
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Acting, writing, and producing. I support myself financially working as the office manager of a small PR firm in Westwood. I take salsa lessons and sing in an atheist choir.

I try to do good things in my free time. I regularly donate platelets and I read to kids in a hospital. About every month or so I'll host a movie or board game night.
I’m really good at
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I'm good at solving computer and technology-related problems. Which, most of the time, means I'm actually good at searching Google for the answer.

I make tasty brownies and sloppy joes. I have a pretty good singing voice. Working at a PR office, I've picked up a few tricks on how to get a story in your hometown newspaper.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height. And because of work, I tend to always be in a button-up shirt. If it's cold out, probably the black duster I've had since freshman year of high school.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: A Song of Ice and Fire, You Are No So Smart, anything written by Cory Doctorow.

Movies: The original Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles movie, the 1989 Batman, anything with Kevin Costner in it. A few other favorites include WALL-E, Jurassic Park and The Avengers.

TV: Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, most things Joss Whedon...

Web comics: xkcd and QC.

Food: Steak, burgers, chicken tenders, chocolate malts, french toast, the aforementioned brownies and sloppy joes.

Music: I tend to listen to music I can sing to. (Meat Loaf, Josh Groban, Journey, etc.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, a Kindle, my phone, the internet, chocolate, and as soon as they're available, autonomous automobiles.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Driverless cars. I eagerly look forward to the day when I never have to drive again. Imagine a world with no traffic jams, no accidents, and the ability to read a book or watch a movie as your car drives you down the 405. It's gonna be wonderful.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
seeing a movie, writing a movie, or shooting a movie.

The same thing I do every night.... Try to take over the world!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have Crohn's disease. Compared to some other people I've met, it's a pretty mild case. But I do take pills with each meal, and I will most likely have to use the restroom at least once during a date. Thankfully, with apps like RunPee I can still see movies while they're in theaters and know exactly what parts I miss.
You should message me if
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You're okay with polyamory and like to talk nerdy.