I'm here to meet someone for real, not looking for a pen pal. If we are a good match on paper, let's just meet for a quick drink... no pressure. I'm a big believer in physical chemistry and there's only one way to find out.
Blah blah blah with all the other stuff. Food, travel, music, outdoors, yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm a fun guy you can have a drink with. If there's potential, great! If not, no harm done, it was just a casual drink.
P.S. I'm not looking for something specific, and it's intentional. I'm keeping my options open because I don't want to miss out on "the one" just because sushi is not her favorite food, she's never listened to radiohead before, or hasn't travelled overseas yet. It's about the chemistry, not the fine details. I don't want to know what I'm looking for. I want to be caught off guard and taken by surprise.
It would be nice if you smile & laugh a lot, take care of your body & mind, and you're willing to open your heart.