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34 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 5
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
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My self-summary
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I'm a wanderer. I've found amazing coconut popsicles in Queens, a taxi driver ironing pants on his hood on the Upper West, a flock of parakeets in Brooklyn, and video projections on a salt mound on Staten Island. I have an undying love for this multicultural, creative, hospitable, stinking town, even when it does me wrong. Right now I'm most in love with Brooklyn and am trying hard to get over my fear of bikes so I can explore more.

Other things I like: old people eating ice cream cones, tugboats, trying to grow plants, photos, the quiet car, kale, finding notes strangers wrote to other strangers on the ground, making up background stories for people on the train, apes, reading The Atlantic, listening to How to do Everything, artificial banana flavor, shiny things, animal noses.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in fundraising for a humanitarian aid organization. Putting money to good use. Spend the rest of my time lollygagging around.
I’m really good at
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Overhearing conversations while paying attention to the one I'm in.

Anticipating when someone is going to have metrocard trouble in front of me at the turnstile.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a little tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Overall favorites would be David Foster Wallace, Jose Saramago, Barbara Kingsolver, and Donna Tartt. Currently on The Goldfinch and Low Life (a little crime and killing in old New York for my bedtime reading).
Movies: General tastes tend to lean more toward slightly odd documentaries, like Okie Noodling, The Cruise, or Grey Gardens.
Shows: The Killing, Damages, Downton Abbey (that's right). Currently dorking out to PBS/Nova/National Geographic documentaries - archaeology and polar bears.
Music: Varies, and I'm tired of what's on rotation now, so open to suggestions.
Food: Love. I actively work to overcome food fears, though I don't have that many. I never want to be held back in a food situation because I don't like something. Currently working on a couple holdouts: cilantro and ginger. I will win this battle.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Living near water
York peppermint patties
Headphones to drown out people on the train
Books with pages
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Writing a user manual for sidewalk-walkers. It would be based off of a driving manual for the most part, containing tips like, "Treat yourself like a car - you would never stop and bang a uey in the middle of the highway, so don't do it on the sidewalk." There would also be an entire chapter about slow vs. fast lanes and another about pulling over to the emergency shoulder when you need to make a pit stop. I figure most people in NY are transplants or visitors from car driving cultures, but seem to forget everything they know about traffic flow once they hit the streets, so maybe airports and train stations could be stocked with gently phrased etiquette pamphlets. I manage my sidewalk rage well, don't worry.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was a colonial beer wench in college. I wore a bonnet. I still have it.
You should message me if
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You like showing off your favorite dive bar, or you want to explore the city to discover "new to you" areas, preferably centering jaunts around food.