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44 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Not at all
Judaism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I’m seeking a caring man to share my heart, stimulate my mind and enjoy life in Portland with. It would be fun to explore the city together, catch some good movies and take trips to the coast. In the summer I love being in the water. I'll take a dip in a fall in the gorge or swim in Salmon Creek Park Lake. But now that it is winter, I tend to enjoy being cozy and warm. I love to cook. Maybe one day I’ll make you my veggie pad thai in peanut sauce. It's nice to linger over dinner and get lost in deep conversation. I find an analytical mind to be sexy.

I really enjoy Euro-style strategy board games such as Settlers of Catan, Puerto Rico and Hansa Teutonica. Crushing my opponents is a nice change from working cooperatively for social justice! A lot of what I do for fun revolves around activism, and my current passion is universal health care reform. I have donned a doctor’s costume to hand out cards promising the basic services of a national health care plan we don’t have, but should. That doesn't mean that I am necessarily looking to meet a fellow activist, just someone with similar progressive values. I expect that you will have different interests from mine and I look forward to learning about them.

Recently I had a blast taking my friend's sweet two-year old daughter to see the Belmont goats. The look of amazement on her face was priceless. Goats in the middle of the city - you've gotta love Portland! I love animals and am interested in holistic health. I’ve been a vegetarian since I was a kid, but I like omnivorous guys too.

Although Portland has been home for years now, I grew up in NYC and I bring with me that style of direct, open and honest communication, so with me you’ll never have to try and guess what I’m thinking. Kind, nurturing men make me feel safe and supported. You're a loyal friend and care about family, community and the world around you. As the rain falls and the wind blows, we can get to know each other over warm cups of tea.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work with at-risk youth providing career and college guidance and coordinating mentors. I also enjoy exploring the city, being active in politics, swimming, going to movies and hanging out with friends.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love veggie stir fries, curries and Coconut Bliss ice cream. I enjoy farmer's markets. Some of my favorite restaurants are Vita Café, Por Qué No, Laughing Planet, Harlow, Bete-Lukas and Blossoming Lotus. Favorite movies include Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Gattaca, Adventureland and The Visitor. I'm currently reading The Woman Behind the New Deal: The Life of Frances Perkins. Some other favorite books are The Political Mind by George Lakoff, Unequal Sisters, Brave New World - and also the Nanny Diaries (but only because I lived it, and oh, do I have some stories to tell!). I’m a fan of Democracy Now, but I don’t always keep up with it as much as I’d like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends
In-depth conversation
Delicious organic food
The opportunity to contribute politically
Natural bodies of water.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, watching movies, cooking for company or
enjoying pot lucks, going out to restaurants or to a mellow house
party. Or it would also be fun to just have a cozy night at home with
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