- Drinks on me
- I'll open the door for you
- My kids love/respect me & like spending time with me
- I have a job/car/house (is this really a thing?!?)
- I meditate
- I'm always warm
- I'm a good communicator
- I like being me
- I can make French Macarons
- When you're with me you'll feel safe & calm
- I am open & strive to live honestly
- I'm politically progressive and love John Stewart
- I don't smoke, do drugs, or have drinking issues
- I only date one woman at a time
- Survey says... I'm a good kisser
- I'm available, have a pulse, and am emotionally present
So, what am I looking for? It's less about what you got and more about what you do with it (both physically and emotionally). I suppose that indicates confidence in self...
I find I relate better to those who've raised kids, have done the work to understand their issues (we all have 'em), and know how to nurture/love themselves.
Physically I prefer tall (5'8"+), and pretty fit (a 5 mile hike is no biggie). I'm a bit old fashioned in that I really appreciate a woman who likes being feminine. Someone who likes feeling sexy and is open to the man they're dating helping them do so. Touch is important to me.
Need to know more? My tests & questions are a good place to start. Still interested? Let's meet! I value face time way more than virtual stuff & I don't like investing too much time before a meet up.