Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
New York State of Mind.
Seeing the world in shades of gray.
I think that most things are fluid, not black and white, from
politics to personalities to sexualities to genders and just about
everything. Most things are on a spectrum.
Monogam-ish. Poly. Open.
Normal is an illusion. What is normal to the spider is chaos to the
What I’m doing with my life
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Living and working in the city.
Enjoying each day. Today is the youngest you'll ever be,
Recently ran the NYC marathon, now back to basketball.
Continuing the adventure that is living in New York, with a few
trips each year.
Recent travels in the past few years include San Fran, Savannah,
GA, Las Vegas, Death Valley, Grand Canyon, Seattle/Portland/Spokane
and Northern Idaho, Erie/Buffalo/Niagara Falls, Memphis, Montreal,
and New Orleans. Dublin and Belfast.
Doing business consulting now, education in the future, and all
sorts of other things in between and along the way. Life has more
than one act.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Basketball, although "really good" is very relative.
I've got a great sense of direction. Whether it's in NYC, or some
other random place, I find my way around pretty well, map or no
Connecting with people.
Remembering interesting/obscure facts and stories. Sometimes
interesting, sometimes useless.
Know anything about Myers Briggs? I'm a believer. And an ENFP, with
a strong N.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books? The Alchemist was great. Midnight in the Garden of Good and
Evil. Sex at Dawn. Opening Up. Dan Savage columns. GGG.
Music: A little bit of everything...Billy Joel, Jay Z, Lady Gaga,
Kanye West, U2, Bruce Springsteen, OAR, 80' music.
I've started going to traditional Irish music sessions in NYC which
is a great time.
Also a fan of NPR.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, Family, NYTimes (news junkie), Internet (sad but true)
Alarm clocks (I'm not a morning person, but I play one on TV),
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'll be up to tonight, and the rest of the week.
What the next adventure is. Where the next travel destination could
Monogamish relationships. Ethical Non-Monogamy. Open
The meaning of certain words. Words are symbols that represent
different meanings, and if one word can have 25 different meanings
to 25 different people it can be tricky! For example, the word
What life will be like in 5 years.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with some group of friends. And it really varies. There are
college friends, work friends, NYC friends, international friends,
traditional Irish music friends, hipster type friends, running
friends, basketball friends and on and on.
Then sometimes there are costume/kinky/fetish party friends. Think
sexy and fun at upscale NYC venues. Some of the costumes and
outfits are amazing. It's like burlesque, but better, and anyone
can dress up a bit. I've been told my legs aren't bad in fishnets
but I don't know about that.
I'm pretty well rounded. I fit a little bit into every box, but not
completely in any box. And I love that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once lost a bet that involved Victoria's Secret.
Funny story and more comfortable than expected. : P
You should message me if
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You liked my profile and pictures.
You think we'd connect well and have some chemistry.
And if you like good conversation.
The word heteroflexible doesn't bother you.
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