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32 M Belleville, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 27
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here is a short list of things about me that aren't changing:

I am tall and I have facial hair.

I love to read a lot, when I have time I do some writing as well. I wrote a zombie web series, had an article on the front page of Yahoo news, and ran a magazine for a while.

I am a geek/nerd whatever you want to call it. I game, I worked at a comic shop, and attend conventions.

I love to see new places and experience new things. The world has too many awesome things to not go explore. I am always willing to try things new things.

I wish the world had more dance numbers.

I don't want kids, ever. I know this can be a big deal breaker so best to be upfront about it.

I am sweet, attentive, and thoughtful. I may despise Valentine's day but that is because I will do random romantic and sweet things for you on a regular basis. Not because a holiday says I should. I will do my best to make sure your birthday is awesome. That is a holiday I can get behind.

I easily shove my foot in my mouth. The more comfortable I am with a person the more it happens. I can ramble a bit, I have been told it is cute.

I will answer any and all questions, comments, or curse words because what is life without some conversation?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it while I'm trying to figure out the big and little details. There are so many things out there I've never done or experienced, and tons of them sound fun, so I'm off to do them!

I work a full time job and am responsible, also about to resume publishing a magazine because it was so much fun the first time. I like creating new things and helping others get their work out there. Also I keep waiting for spontaneous dance numbers to happen. One day it will be a thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting excited about new things and going about trying them. Making people feel better. Being tall, I can reach things high up on the shelf!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm so tall, also that I am wearing glasses and am hairy. They may also notice I am a mammal, but they could actually believe I am a reptile. I have no evidence to back that last bit up, no one has ever come up to me and said "hey are you a reptile?" but you never know, just being safe in my answer and covering all the bases.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books (books I have enjoyed in last year or so): Born Standing Up by Steve Martin, Fool by Christopher Moore, I Am a Japanese Writer by Dany LaFerriere, the Song of Ice and Fire series (A Game of Thrones and such), there are a bunch more but those are the ones that stand out at this moment.

Movies: Moonrise Kingdom, the Avengers, Scott Pilgrim vs the World, Fight Club, High Fidelity, Cabin in the Woods, Princess Bride, Singing in the Rain, the Artist, Rocky Horror Picture Show, etc.

Shows: Castle, Mad Men, New Girl, Breaking Bad, Treme, Parks and Recreation, the Venture Brothers, Community, also the Wire, Firefly, and anything else that can make me care deeply about the characters and plot or make me laugh immensely.

Music: Anything that catches my fancy, BUT as you may want some examples..... David Bowie, Gogol Bordello, Rasputina, Tom Waits, Rollins Band, Reverend Peytons Big Damn Band, Metric, Johnny Cash, the Offspring, Soulfly, Adam Warrock, and Flogging Molly. That list was created by hitting random on iPod, just an FYI for those preparing for the quiz later.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How language works. How people speak, how certain phrases are picked up and used.

Life, the universe, and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about as of late. Be it at a friend's place, at some neat event, or just catching a movie. Sometimes I'm home reading, writing, or watching is this question fair? It isn't like every Friday is the same, I can look back at the last several 10 Fridays and not have a common factor large enough to answer this... I don't like this question OKCupid, are you trying to find out what I'm doing on Friday because you want to ask me to do something or just creepily stalk me? What are YOU usually doing on Friday nights OKCupid? I have my eyes on you....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wrote and acted in a pretty bad comedic zombie apocalypse web show. I can say it is private because so few people watched it!
You should message me if
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If you didn't hit the "not interested button"
If something I wrote above made you smile or nod your head in agreement
If you think a romance being compared to Romeo and Juliet is a BAD THING (it is a flipping tragedy people! SPOILERS they both commit suicide at the end.)
If you know how much wood a woodchuck could chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood, I just want the answer!