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TallSexyNerd

31 / F / Straight / Single

Washington, District of Columbia

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 4:01am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a regular Girl Friday: a mix of tomboy, native New Yorker, straight shooter, and spasmodic dancer. I'm proud to be a nerd and am always a lady. And since you all are so fond of Myers-Briggs, I'm INTJ or ENTJ (depending on the day).

I like being physically active in spite of some impressive injuries -- playing coed softball, going to the gym, boxing (sadly, no sparring or Crossfit due to neck injury). I love to cook, hang out with my baby niece (and then hand her back to her parents), and make friends with all my neighbors that have dogs.
What I’m doing with my life
Working from 9-5:30 (legal desk jockey); playing at all other times.

My superhero alter ego inspires people to fight for their health and fitness at whatever level that may be.
I’m really good at
saying the most awkward thing at the worst time.
The first things people usually notice about me
Lately? The Rogue hairdo.
Generally? That I am very direct.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sports: diehard NY Giants fan.

books: Shakespeare (my collected works is full of post-it flags and penciled in notes in the margin), forensic thrillers, non-fiction on a variety of topics (especially nutrition, food science, and forensic anthropology).

movies: more romcom/drama/comedy than action/horror.

music: I skew towards singers/bands that have amazing lyrics and solid melodies/harmonies. See, e.g., Elbow.

foods: Bacon. Garlic. Avocado. Everything else is secondary.
The six things I could never do without
1. My family and friends (and yes, my cats are family)
2. Modern medical technology.
3. Music (Nietzsche said "without music life is a mistake" and I happen to agree)
4. A fully-loaded kitchen
5. Buddhism
6. The video of this little penguin squealing with glee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what important information my brain has misplaced in favor of random lyrics...
On a typical Friday night I am
same thing we do every night, Pinky....

most likely at the gym....sweating away the frustrations of work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The last time a boy asked me out for Valentine's Day, we were both in kindergarten.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You should email me immediately if you are Nathan Fillion (Captains Mal & Hammer), Dan Stevens (from Downtown Abbey), Takeshi Kaneshiro (House of Flying Daggers), or Osi Umenyiora (formerly of the NY Giants). *swoons*

Deal makers:
1. Taller than me
2. Non-Smokers
3. You have a full command of the English language (okay, let's be frank here--if you can't manage the English language, I'm not going to trust that you know what to do with my lady bits).

Deal breakers:
I won't respond to guys who (1) try to neg me (2) show minimal effort in writing an email, and/or (3) send me a proforma email.

To answer your questions:
"Hi, how r u?" -- I'm fine.
"Hey, whut up?" Nothing much. Just deleting your email cause it bored me to tears.