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Tall_Oak

53 / M / Straight / Married

Fremont, California

His Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hello to one and all!

I’m a cerebral, artistic fellow looking for friendship with thoughtful, intelligent people. I’m not interested in romance. I am married but separated, slowly restoring balance to my life. I’m open to both local and remote friendships from anywhere. I strongly prefer woman around my age but I am open to other very interesting people. If you care to respond, please do so thoughtfully. A mere greeting says little.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in work in software design, which unsurprisingly takes up much of my time in energy. Otherwise I write: screenplays, Great American Novels, long letters to friends. I take long walks, preferably in wooded areas or sea shores when I can. I spend plenty of time playing with cats. I enjoy drawing and pastels.
I’m really good at
Problem solving, communicating, teaching and training, working with others. I tend to see things other people overlook (and vice versa). I hope to be good at writing one day.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm very tall and thin, soft-spoken, courteous, helpful, thoughtful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love movies of all types! In an ideal world I would write for them. A sample of some favorites:
Casablanca
Raiders of the Lost Ark
Avatar
Annie Hall
Mr. Smith Goes to Washington
Aliens
The Shawshank Redemption
The Lord of the Rings
(500) Days of Summer
Shakespeare in Love
My Fair Lady (and Pygmalion)
The Princess Bride

Books tend to be non-fiction, young adult, fantasy, literature:
The fairy tales of George MacDonald, (e.g. The Light Princess)
John Adams - David McCullough
The Hunger Games trilogy - Suzanne Collins
Skakespeare's plays
Lies My Teacher Told Me - James Loewen
Don Quixote - Miguel de Cervantes
1001 Arabian Nights
1491 - Charles Mann

Music is all over the place. Currently Bossa Nova and 40-50's classics.

I prefer ethnic food from practically anywhere. I'm blessed to live in a very ethnically diverse place with many wonderful restaurants and cafes.
The six things I could never do without
Books
Nature
Movies
Cats
Art
Good food, wine and beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Hmm ... the meaning of life? Human nature. Relationships - friends, romances and family. What I learn each day.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually beat on Friday nights. I typically go to a movie or I stay home with the kitties and read or write.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've shared quite a bit here. I tend to be honest and open but not indiscriminately so.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 43–61
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
... you are interested in friendship, enjoy writing, particularly about meaningful things either inside or outside your life, and are not hoping it will develop into romance later.

If you've read this far, thank you for your time!
Jim