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Tallnfun1977

36 / F / Straight / Single

Denver, Colorado

Her Details

Last Online
May 9
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I've been a proud Denverite for 10+ years, loving every minute of it. I relocated out here after 9/11 when I was living in Jersey City and could see the towers from my bedroom window. Having grown up summering on my family's ranch in southern Colorado and skiing on spring break, I used to ask my mother why we didn't just live here. Dallas is not my scene though I miss my parents who are still happily married living there.

I tend to be highly motivated though I've mellowed out quite a bit in my thirties. Work-life balance and personal happiness have become a significant priority. In my twenties, I graduated from Princeton, taught in the inner city while earning a master's in teaching and a second master's in administrative leadership and policy studies, and wrapped up the decade by concluding my law degree. I'm exhausted, just thinking about it!

I'm an introvert at heart (INTJ if you know Meyer's Briggs) though I'm very social at the same time. I enjoy spending time with friends, and I am fortunate to have many here. In fact, two of my best friends from high school live here.

Taking good care of myself is important to me. I enjoy some sort of exercise at least 4-5 times a week whether I'm pounding the elliptical for an hour, mustering through a Pilates class, making my epic local pass worth the price, or hiking/snowshoeing in the foothills. I'd love to find an activity partner in a future relationship with the caveat that I'm not an "extremist." You won't find me up at 3am to climb 12 fourteeners this summer or doing a century ride just for the heck of it. I do love the outdoors, but I'm not "in training":)

Politically, I swing left, though admittedly it is somewhat irresponsible of me to vote a ticket strictly based on education policy, something I'm particularly passionate about.

Spiritually, I attend an episcopal church once a month - sometimes none - I seem to cycle in phases. I find it grounding though I find just as much solace in the peace of a scenic mountain valley. The episcopal church is not indoctrinating and is openminded - not very rule oriented, if you will. I find it to be a very inclusive, accepting place. Generally though, my philosophy is that everything happens for a reason, and I strive to ascertain what I'm supposed to learn from every person I meet and every up and down I encounter. I'm very appreciative of all that I've been given in this life and try to pay it forward wherever possible.

I find that I'm more of a homebody than a world traveler though I've visited all over the world - Europe, Asia, Central America, etc. I prefer to travel within Colorado as there's so much to enjoy right in our backyard.

I'm looking for someone who knows who he is. He should be down-to-earth, easy going, career-minded with a good sense of humor. Height is always a bonus!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm at an exciting intersection in my life. After a 13-year career in education as a teacher and director at a nonprofit, working with students from low-income communities, I have recently become an attorney.
I’m really good at
being a great friend, writing, listening, playing the piano...when I find the time to practice, dancing, and figure drawing...yes, that's live, nude models - charcoal is my favorite medium.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm pretty candid, honest and to the point. I'm not the most talkative person until you get to know me, but when I do say something, you'll always know where you stand and I'm pretty willing to share what's on my mind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love live music and have an eclectic taste - just about anything from Beethoven to Simon & Garfunkel to Jack Ingram to Rodrigo y Gabriela to Railroad Earth to Jack Johnson to Bruebeck.

I enjoy Indie films, comedy, documentaries and historical dramas. Waiting for Superman, The Lottery, Rear Window, The King's Speech, The Pianist, The Hours, Bridesmaids, Life is Beautiful, A Beautiful Mind, When Harry Met Sally, American Gangster, The Blind Side, The Reader, Little Miss Sunshine, Ray, Sideways, Traffic...

I'm a fan of most foods though I had a bad experience with sushi once and have a peanut allergy so I tend to steer clear of some Asian restaurants.

Favorite books - Savage Inequalities, Outliers, Let Us Now Praise Famous Men, The Hiding Place, The Giving Tree, Catch-22, The Catcher in the Rye, The Freedom Writers' Diary, Switch, First Break All the Rules, The Help. Favorite authors - Marzano, Emerson, Updike, Bradbury, Gladwell, Michael Lewis
The six things I could never do without
close family and friends
taking good care of myself
the mountains/nature
exercise
music
iPhone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my future hopes and dreams...
On a typical Friday night I am
gathering with close friends, watching a movie, listening to some live music, or just taking it easy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I secretly love watching "Dancing with the Stars":)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
if you're looking for something more than casual sex or short-term dating, you're over your divorce or last long-term relationship, and if you enjoyed learning about me and have a similar outlook on life...look forward to hearing from you!