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Tamara_

22 / F / straight / Available

Dordrecht, Netherlands

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Unemployed
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently)

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I am open-minded, caring, and talkative.

My Self-Summary

Is there a more difficult question? "Hi, could you please tell me about yourself?". Let's start with the statistics. I'm a 22 year old girl. I can act as though I'm not a day over 5 though :P I live in Dordrecht, a city in the South-West of the Netherlands. I have 1 piercing, 1 nose, two feet and purple-dyed hair. I also have a open/polyamorous relationship with zmatt, and a stuffed animal called 'Bob'.
Ooh, and I loooooooove getting messages, so if you want to make my day, message me!

What I’m doing with my life

Getting it back on track. There have been some challenges in my life lately and right now I'm deciding on what I want to do, who I want to be, and how to get there.

I’m really good at

Talking! I do it a lot anyway :P I also have had plenty of practise in hugging, I guess I'm good at that too :P Other people compliment me on my massaging-skills, and that I often seem to know what to say to people who are a bit blue, or that I see things that are completely obvious...but no-one seemed to have seen before I pointed it out.

The first things people usually notice about me

Everything! I'm quite the noticeable person :P At least, when I'm at ease, I can be real shy too. But when surrounded by friends...
I'm big, I'm loud, I talk with big gestures, I laugh a lot, I'm mostly surrounded by quite a number of other people. It happened more than once that I was at a party, and people came up to me 'Ah, you must be Tamara!' and they would have never seen me before.

Oh, and my hair is purple. I guess that's kind of noticeable also :P

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Hitchhikers guide to the Galaxy, Harry Potter, Dan Brown, Terry Pratchett (still have loads to read of him though. I really do need a library card). I'm also a huge fan of Thea Beckman. A Dutch writer, she died a few years ago, and wrote mostly children's books. I still love them. Roald Dahl is also someone I like. I kinda like everything. Well, just about :P

Oh, and I've also read the 'Death Gate Cycle' by Weiss and Hickman wich makes me score geek-points appearantly. I love trying to be geeky, so I just thought i'd mention the fact that I've read it...

Music: I'm into pop-rock-kinda stuff, though I actually like everything. Favourite bands: Racoon (Dutch band) and Savage Garden. I have a real broad taste in stuff.
I even listen to tekno! Ketaklak \o/

I don't watch many movies, I do watch television. My favorite televisionshow at this moment is Doctor Who. I'm totally addicted at this point. And offcourse Torchwood.
I also like McLeod's Daughters, Bones, CSI and Law&Order.

The six things I could never do without

- The Internet. You can truly find everything you need on the internet, you can meet loads of nice people trough it, I love it!
- Friends, family, that sort of stuff. I like to care for people, I like it when people care for me. I like to cuddle and talk to people. I would be a terrible hermit, I can't be alone for too long.
- Ice tea. I'm addicted to it. No really. Ok, maybe I could learn to live without it, and I should definatly drink less of it :P But it's sooooo jummy!
- Blankets. I love the warmth, softness and general feel of a blanket. It feels safe or something, to be surrounded bij warmth and fluffyness.

The other 2 things I have to think about. :P

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life. Love. Myself. What will my future look like? How do other people see me? How do I see myself? In what degree is the world around me just created by my own imagination?
At this point I'm also thinking a lot about relationships. Polygamie, polyamorie, monogamie. What are they, what do they mean, what do I like about them, how do I make it all work for me... Self-exploration ftw! I also spend a lot of time thinking about what I can do to make everyone around me happier, how to make the world a better place. I get a bit hippie-ish now and then :P

On a typical Friday night I am

At home, behind my PC. Or at some friends house. Or someone is visiting me. I don't like going out or anything. And usually, I don't know what I'll be doing untill one hour before jumping on the train 'cause someone called and asked me over. And since my boyfriend and I started becoming more than friends, he's been here a lot too on friday's.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I sometimes cheat while playing games. It's not that I'm a terrible loser, I just don't like it. Or as some Dutch comedian once said: 'I'm not a poor loser, I just haven't had much practise with it.'. :P Either way, that's probably why I loooooove Munchkin, 'cause it says in the rules 'cheating is allowed, as long as no-one notices it'
And another thing that I'm a bit ashamed off: I love, love, LOOOOOVE the movie 10 things I hate about you

You should message me if

You made it all the way down to the end of this profile. If you came this far, let me know and I'll congratulate you :P

Or if you want cyber-hugs. Cyber-hugs are good. Not as good as real hugs, but they'll do...

And if you can think of any other reason people should message me. I'd like to know what to put here :P