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Tamburlaine

43 / M / straight / Single

Santa Cruz, California

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Graduated from Ph.D program
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I am thoughtful, generous, and playful.

My Self-Summary

Life is an Adventure. Current Chapter: I am a college English professor by trade, and a musician/singer/songwriter by passion.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a college professor who loves the natural side of life.

I’m really good at

Writing/Editing
Making friends
Music

The first things people usually notice about me

My intelligence
My inquisitive nature
My appreciation for music

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Here are just a few of the musical artists most near and dear to my heart: Sonic Youth, The Flaming Lips, Sparklehorse, Nick Cave, Leonard Cohen, and Cat Power. There are a million other artists I totally dig, and I'm always eager to learn about someone new.

Books:
The Sun Also Rises, Ernest Hemingway
Symposium, Plato
The Odyssey, Homer
A Thousand Plateaus, Gilles Deleuze and Felix Guattari
The Sound and the Fury, William Faulkner
Mrs. Dalloway, Virginia Woolf
Orlando, Virginia Woolf
Ulysses, James Joyce
Moby Dick, Herman Melville
Riddley Walker, Russell Hoban
Civilization and Its Discontents, Sigmund Freud
The Crying of Lot 49, Thomas Pynchon
The Inferno, Dante
Paradise Lost, John Milton
Early Modern Drama: Shakespeare, Jonson, Marlowe.

I also like movies and food. I really do. But I think this list is long enough as is.

The six things I could never do without

My friends
My family
My health
My humor
Music

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I don't yet know; I long to learn.

On a typical Friday night I am

Playing music or just hanging with a group of my closest friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Despite my best efforts, I cried the first time I saw "Steel Magnolias." In fact, I blubbered uncontrollably. I believe it makes me a better man.

You should message me if

You like to go to see shows or plays; you're more of a punk than a hippie; you like biking in the City; you like sailing, hiking, and going to museums; you're a unique person like me and, you were born to run.