The central core of my self identity is my spiritual practice. I am a long-time long time practitioner of Buddhism}} of the Vajrayana ( [Tibetan Buddhism ) persuasion. That is the meat of my spiritual life however it heavily seasoned with Paganism, Kabbalah, Hermetics, Taoism and Shivite Tantra. My core passions are transformation – personal and global transformation I am interested in being the fullest expression of the human potential (which is nothing less then divine) I can be and helping all life do the same. Yes I am out to save the world – it’s a dirty job but someone’s gotta do it
I have been polyamorous since I was 10(not by name mind you). At that point it was more theoretical then applied as I was a bit socially misfited at the time and didn’t actually have any sustained lovers until I was 19. It was at that tender age, however, that I decided monogamy made no sense to me. I didn’t understand what jealousy and possession had to do with love. When I was 19 I got involved in the Pagan/Magick scene in L.A. and theory was put into practice and I have been practicing polyamoury ever since, with a great deal of hands on experience with wide range of situations.
Polyamoury is the natural expression of my spirituality and passion for transformation. I see relationships and sexuality as paths of transformation. I was never able to separate my sexuality and my spirituality. My earliest sexual fantasies where of making love in temples and sacred grove.(yes when I was 10) sometimes with one other and sometimes with multiple partners. Transfromational Passion(Sacred Sexaulity) is a pervasive theme of my passion for transformation.
In terms of my orientation I consider myself bisexual in that I am open to sharing my love and affection with the men in my life sexually if they are so inclined but I have never actively pursued such a style of relating with men then . I have no idea where that puts me on the Kinsey scale - don’t much care. I am open
I am a trained healer (bodywork, energywork, and breath)
On the lighter sight I am an unrepuntant (umm… I mean unrepentant) punster. My style is sort of shotgun approach. Just let am fly and sooner or later one or two will hit the mark and be funny. I can also make a sexual innuendo out of almost any statement. If it can be found I will find it. Humor is a big part of how I take in life. I am a big fan of stand-up comedy. Bill Hick being way out in the lead as my favorite comedian of all time and Eddie Izzard is my current living favorite.
My main form of entertainment is movies – I love ‘em. I must confess my tastes run more towards the Hollywood blockbuster type with a strong preference for action, comedy and Sci-fi. I have, however, been known to enjoy a good drama and even a foreign film now and again. I also love dancing but I am not much into the club scene.
I enjoy reading fiction (fantasy and Sci-fi mostly) but don’t find much time for it. My favorite fiction author is Tom Robbins.
I love fine food, especially of the Asian persuasion with Thai food topping the list followed by sushi. I am a good cook especially with a wok.
In summery I am loving, compassionate, nurturing, passionate, open minded, spacious, intensely spiritual and ecstatic about my life. On the one hand, I know more or less where I am going and what my life is about. On the other hand, I embrace and swim in the mystery of it all.
I am Compassionate, Passionate, and Outside of the box