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Tangent4me

31 / m / straight / available

Portland, Oregon, United States

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6'00'' tall, 195 lbs., and fairly literal

My self-summary Propose an edit

I frequently RPG. I am falling in love with my wife all over again, and at the same time looking for friends that I can really talk to. I am looking for love but realize that most people don't have a good idea what love really is. I am just exploring what a Poly relationship would look like and how this fits in with my life and my wife. I would like to get to, or fall into place with, someone who can talk about just about anything. I would really enjoy a chance to meet some people that are open, fairly stable, and have more questions about life than answers.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I am in school but am not sure where that is going to lead. I am working full time and I am not sure if I am ready for a change in career (love the current economy). I am raising 2 wonderful kids. I am doing the usual man around the house things... BBQ, mow the lawn, break the lawn mower, random home repair...

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Running a RPG. If you play you know that a Game Master is a rare breed, I love it. Paying attention, even if I should not have been. Hiking in the Columbia Gorge. Problem solving and looking at the other side of things. Cooking, although I cook only occasionally.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

Long hair and facial hair. Some people notice right off how busy I tend to stay, and how little I sleep. The dark beer I drink. The full bar I keep. Have I mentioned I don't sleep much?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Wow what a list, where do I start. I am a Portland Foodie, I love Italian food, Greek food, Chinese food... I listen to most any music, but can't ever name any one kind as a favorite. I very seldom have time to catch a movie. Most of the books I like are Humor, Sci-Fi, Fantasy (all kinds), and a great deal of really random books from other genres.
L.E. Modesitt Jr. is the writer I am currently following. I like his blend of Ethics, Social commentary and Sci-Fi/Fantasy creativity. He is also a writer that shows a strong main male character.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Personal contact.
Reading.
The exileration of pushing myself.
Another intimate mind.
Fine Food.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Honesty. Ethics. Sex. Women. What to eat. Where to eat. My wife and kids.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Having friends over, talking till the wee hours and really getting very little done. Having a few drinks.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I don't know of anything I'm unwilling to admit except the names of others. Heck, drop me a line and I'll admit something to you.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You are friendly, and are willing to respond to whatever random thing is in my head at the time I read this site, and that is usually late evening, after dark.

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Tangent4me: 643 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo and it's fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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