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54 M Castro Valley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 23
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
***Currently i am fighting a non-smoker type stage 4 lung cancer, i am very intact mentally, but physically limited due to a drop of my strength from past and current chemo-therapy....*****
I am warm, considerate, flexible and resourceful......
Can be funny when inspired by other people & circumstances...
Observe and like to learn new skills...
Do things well and like to slow down when possible...
Have been to all the lower 48 states and many national parks...
What I’m doing with my life
Workinging to stay healthy to face my illness ...
Searching for meaningful activities that serves all kinds...
Studying western and eastern philosophy on forgiving and progress...
Learning Chinese medicine and applying to ease other's discomfort...
Making great connections with new and old friends...
Eliminating emotional and materialistic burdens...
I’m really good at
Listening actively...
Suggesting solutions when problems arise...
Cooking Chinese food AND cleaning up afterwards...
Being handy with a hot stones and tibetan singing bowls for healing...
Feeling your pain and putting a finger on it , they call it Accu-pressure
Finding good glass jars and bottles in recycling bins
The first things people usually notice about me
My intensity ... My smile...
Being energetic and engaging when excited...
Being quiet and observant when timid...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: To Kill A mockingbird, The Seabiscuits, Forrest Gump, James Cagney's Authorized Autobiography, The Many Quotes of Winston Churchill, ...
Movies: Shawshank Redemption, The Green Mile, It's A Wonderful Life, To Kill A Mockingbird, Forest Gump, ...
Music : 50's & 60's Oldies, R&B's, Classical, Instrumental, ...
Food: Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Korean, Italian, French, American, ...
The six things I could never do without
Curiosity about life ...( Have hope ... Andy in Shawshank Redemption)
Maps and directions to places
Cell phone & laptop
My vehicle
Books and videos for learning various subjects
Pots & Pans and a stove...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what can I do to get healthier...
How to make things easier...
What is my next calling ...
Why haven't you contacted me yet? (just kidding)
On a typical Friday night I am
i decided that this night is nothing more special than any other nights...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
well? how about we discuss this later in private?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–58
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You would like to make a new friend in me who just had a life changing experience !
You want to practice with me how to start a good and nurturing friendship and develop great connections with others ....
Or just have a good laugh with me ! ?