***Currently i am fighting a non-smoker type stage 4 lung cancer, i am very intact mentally, but physically limited due to a drop of my strength from past and current chemo-therapy....*****
I am warm, considerate, flexible and resourceful......
Can be funny when inspired by other people & circumstances...
Observe and like to learn new skills...
Do things well and like to slow down when possible...
Have been to all the lower 48 states and many national parks...

Workinging to stay healthy to face my illness ...
Searching for meaningful activities that serves all kinds...
Studying western and eastern philosophy on forgiving and progress...
Learning Chinese medicine and applying to ease other's discomfort...
Making great connections with new and old friends...
Eliminating emotional and materialistic burdens...

Listening actively...
Suggesting solutions when problems arise...
Cooking Chinese food AND cleaning up afterwards...
Being handy with a hot stones and tibetan singing bowls for healing...
Feeling your pain and putting a finger on it , they call it Accu-pressure
Finding good glass jars and bottles in recycling bins

My intensity ... My smile...
Being energetic and engaging when excited...
Being quiet and observant when timid...

Books: To Kill A mockingbird, The Seabiscuits, Forrest Gump, James Cagney's Authorized Autobiography, The Many Quotes of Winston Churchill, ...
Movies: Shawshank Redemption, The Green Mile, It's A Wonderful Life, To Kill A Mockingbird, Forest Gump, ...
Music : 50's & 60's Oldies, R&B's, Classical, Instrumental, ...
Food: Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Korean, Italian, French, American, ...

Curiosity about life ...( Have hope ... Andy in Shawshank Redemption)
Maps and directions to places
Cell phone & laptop
My vehicle
Books and videos for learning various subjects
Pots & Pans and a stove...

what can I do to get healthier...
How to make things easier...
What is my next calling ...
Why haven't you contacted me yet? (just kidding)

i decided that this night is nothing more special than any other nights...

well? how about we discuss this later in private?

You would like to make a new friend in me who just had a life changing experience !
You want to practice with me how to start a good and nurturing friendship and develop great connections with others ....
Or just have a good laugh with me ! ?