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38 New Haven, CT Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:00pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am a traditional kind of guy looking for a lady who is cultured, educated and has a genuine warmth. ...a lady who likes dancing, has energy and communicates well.

I like to road-trip and play polo...horses are amazing. Museums, coffee, and good conversation with someone who knows something are what I'm all about. You can usually find me in NYC on weekends visiting friends and going ballroom/salsa dancing. Skiing in winter. Snorkeling. Having an adventurous spirit is key to life. Currently taking sailing lessons.

Misc me, summed up:

-awesome fam
-I can fix computers, electronics, and household items
-I don't personally believe in a divinity, but I greatly appreciate our basic traditions of morality.
-I'm part Norwegian, German, and English.
What I’m doing with my life
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I did my PhD at the University of Chicago and am now doing neurobiology research at Yale.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmm well music is a passion of mine and I am concertmaster of a small Yale orchestra, have performed violin solos with orchestras, and have been to US Nationals in competitive ballroom dancing. In my spare time I am also a violinist in an awesome orchestra in New York and we've performed at Carnegie Hall.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically: either my blue eyes or my height. Personality: I'm calm, collected, and engaging when it comes to ideas, but I'm not interested in minutia. Keep the focus.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sushi is hard to beat, but closely followed by a great brunch. A port after dinner is wonderful sometimes. I like to read classics and fantasy. Pride and Prejudice, LOTR, Great Expectations, Catcher in the Rye, 1984. Dallas String Quartet. 2 Cellos.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Apple products
Polo horses
My violin
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The brain. No kidding. It's my job.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am affectionate and love to cuddle, but not in a clingy way. Space is good.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for a sweet, nice girl with warmth who also wants to explore the world and have a family.

Hopefully you like symphony and opera (I have eclectic musical tastes; just no rap, please), and are not too extreme as in socialist or communist.

I have never been into tattoos, drugs, or smoking, and I am completely monogamous, and I hope for the same in my lady. These are my standards. Thank you for understanding.