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37 M New Haven, CT

My Details

Last Online
Jul 14
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a traditional kind of guy looking for a lady who is elegant, cultured, and loving. ...a lady who has energy and communicates well. I have a negative view of much of today's pop culture, and I was brought up in a loving household that appreciates refinement, perseverance, and a job well done.

I like to road-trip and play polo...horses are amazing. Museums, coffee, and good conversation with someone who knows something are what I'm all about. You can usually find me in NYC on weekends visiting friends and going ballroom/salsa dancing. Skiing in winter. Snorkeling. Having an adventurous spirit is key to life.

Some additional facts about me and where I come from:
-I have never been married and have never proposed; but I am looking forward to it.
-my wonderful parents are still happily married
-I have a great brother who is now happily married with 2 kids
-I am physically quite fit and in perfect health
-I don't personally believe in a divinity, but I greatly appreciate our basic traditions of morality.
-I'm part Norwegian, German, and English.
What I’m doing with my life
Studying neurobiology at Yale. I am going the academic route for now, but I'm open to several other options also.
I’m really good at
Hmm well I am concertmaster of a Yale orchestra, have performed violin solos with orchestras, and have been to US Nationals in competitive ballroom dancing. In my spare time I am also a violinist in an award-winning orchestra in New York and we've performed at Carnegie Hall.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically: either my blue eyes or my height. Personality: I'm calm, collected, and engaging when it comes to ideas, but I'm not interested in minutia. Keep the focus.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sushi is hard to beat, but closely followed by a great brunch. A port after dinner is wonderful sometimes. I like to read classics and fantasy. Pride and Prejudice, LOTR, Great Expectations, Catcher in the Rye, 1984.
The six things I could never do without
Apple products
Polo horses
My violin
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The brain. No kidding. It's my job.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am affectionate and love to cuddle, but not in a clingy way. Space is good.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You believe in love.

You are sweet, like classical music at least to some degree (I have eclectic musical tastes; just no rap, please), and are not too extreme as in socialist or communist.

I have never been into tattoos, drugs, or smoking, and I am completely monogamous, and I hope for the same in my lady. These are my standards. Thank you for understanding.