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49 San Mateo, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 25
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Judaism but it’s not important
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I own my own business and enjoy playing guitar and writing songs. I enjoy kinky spiritual connections. Masculinity and femininity are fun to explore with the right partners. I consider myself romantic. I'm a big communicator, so you should be too. I'm not sure if these test questions are all that accurate.

I like many things like dancing, garage sales and exploring new neighborhoods. I love to create friendships with intimacy & playfulness.

I am originally from New York. I enjoyed driving across the country. The U.S. is a big place. I like collecting musical instruments.

I love finding new tasty restaurants. That excites me. Each meal is another chance to celebrate life.

I am funny, affectionate, polyamorous and confident
What I’m doing with my life
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Building my business and getting better at music playing. Also, growing sexually, spiritually and emotionally. Being in the moment. I get to work at home alot, so I have a rather low stress lifestyle. I also appreciate the work of David Deida. His ideas on relationships are great.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Guitar, chess, programming websites, listening, integrity, drum circles
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile. Sometimes my left over New York accent. Fuggetaboutit!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Back To The Future, Matrix, Tommy Boy, Waynes World, Secretary, Swept Away, Fight Club, Die Hard, Wild At Heart, Raising Arizona, Ghostbusters

TV: Big Bang Theory, Seinfeld, Everybody Loves Raymond, Most HBO programming

Authors: HP Lovecraft, John Grisham, Robert E Howard (Conan), Anne Rice, Anais Nin, Tolkien, Stephen King, Laura Antoniou

Books: Treasure Island, Time Travelers Wife

Music: Led Zeppelin, John Mayer, Grateful Dead, Jimmy Buffet, Green Day, U2, Strunz & Farah, Zydeco, Sheryl Crow, Bluegrass, AC/DC, Lana Del Ray

Food: Sushi, Italian, Chinese, NY Pizza
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intimacy, Cuddling, Talking to people, A purpose, Live Music, Sushi.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My business. Music. What Bay area event to go to next. D/s. How spirituality and sexuality are tied together.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ready to go out. It makes the weekend seem longer. Even if its just to have dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been to the Southwest Leather Conference.
You should message me if
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If you think Secretary was a love story.
If you also have a FL profile.