Who am I? Well, I am different things to different people. I am the single father of three great kids. I am a brother, a son, a friend and a lover. I am a successful businessman and a sometimes church-goer I am a skier, a diver, a whitewater kayaker, an ex-pilot and a cyclist. I am socially liberal and financially conservative. I am intelligent, stable and fun-loving. And.. I am an experienced Master (I am seeking a slave or submissive

I am Dominant, open-minded, and adventurous

Ever read the book "Who Moved My Cheese"? Life is about change. I am searching for the person or people who want to come along on my journey. So far, with all its bumps along the way, life has been good. I like where I live. I enjoy my profession and running my own business.

So, what am I doing with my life? I am working and playing. I am stopping along the way to smell the roses. And I am searching for a partner.

Oh wow, how does one do this without sounding conceited? I am good at my profession. I am good at understanding complex concepts. I am good at investing and the stock market. I can communicate well.

As a master, I am very good at bringing out the submissive side of my partner. If submission is a part of her makeup, I can probably find it, build on it and teach her about herself.

BTW, in case you don't know, D/s (Domination, submission) relationships are 100% consensual. They are never abusive. A true master would never strike his sub in anger. Either partner may stop everything by uttering a safe word. Trust is the key to any D/s relationship.

What I'm bad at: I don't follow pro sports very much. My knowledge of music and arts can be very basic. I'm intelligent but not always people smart. I can't dance.

Well, I'm tall. I think I'm good looking (but then doesn't everyone?). I probably appear outgoing and confident.

Books: Fifty Shades of Grey, The Story of O, Screw the Roses, The Loving Dominant, Dan Brown- (loved the DaVinci Code) Steven King- (almost everything he writes) James Michner- (Chesapeake, Hawaii) Harry Potter- (boy, hate admitting that one lol), Ayn Rand- Atlas Shrugged (I'm a Libertarian),

Movies: anything with action like Top Gun. Comedy: The Pink Panther was hilarious.

Music: classic - give me that old time rock and roll

Foods: Italian, Mexican, Chinese, American. Come to think of it, I like pretty much all foods

In life: family, friends, health, business, outdoor activities, computer

In lifestyle: ropes, leather restraints, spreader bars, nipple clamps, floggers, singletails, crops, violet wand.

Life, sex and work (not always in that order). Planning adventures, converting my log cabin into a dungeon.

I could be anywhere. I really enjoy such a wide variety of activities. A romantic, vanilla evening at home is great. So is a wild day of play or the occasional overnight to a BDSM club in NY or Philly. In the winter, I enjoy weekend ski trips to the Poconos or Vermont. In the spring and summer, maybe relaxing by the pool or traveling in the RV. I am up for almost anything but I do like to keep busy.

I have a part-time summer job running a Sybian.

If you are open minded. If you have ever had fantasies of submission. If you read Story of O and thought her story was erotic, not abusive. If you thought it was pretty cool when Snydley Whiplash tied poor Nell to the railroad tracks (as long as the train didn't come). If you are afraid that you may be too inexperienced or just aren't sure, you should message me. If it turns you on when your partner holds your hands down while you make love. If you are bi-sexual and would consider a long term polyamorous relationship. If none of the above apply and you just have a question I'd love to hear from you.