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25 M Gambier, OH

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:05pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Full-time professional, retired college swimmer, part-time intellect, part-time goofball, full-time gentleman.

Brand new to the Midwest! New friends are welcome.

Throw any stereotypes out of the window. I tend to break those.

Personality type = ENTP (Google it for all the details)

IG (to ease your 'catfish' worries): Instatater
What I’m doing with my life
Currently employed full time (HigherEd) and prepping for graduate school. Working towards a Phd in Higher Education or Educational Policy. Ultimately, I want to become a dean or college/university president. My passion is education.
I’m really good at
Interacting with people just comes naturally. I love speaking in front of crowds and learning more about people that I interact with on a daily basis. Everyone has a story that we can learn from.

Puns. I enjoy putting my English degree to good use and making people laugh in the process (or at least groan because my jokes are so bad).

Navigating airports: I fly. A lot. Most people stress out over traveling, but me? It calms me down. No joke. I used to fly home for haircuts in college. Yeah...just ask me about it.

Working out/Fitness. You'll find me in the gym or in the pool 5-6 times a week. I'm really wanting to try yoga, not going to lie.
The first things people usually notice about me
My composure. I always maintain a certain level of it, because panicking accomplishes nothing. But I can guarantee that I am taking in and analyzing everything around me.

"Dressing well is a form of good manners." -Tom Ford

Cole Haan and Brooks Brothers are my go-to. GQ guides my outfits for the most part...except my suits don't cost $5,000 (yet?). My Halloween costume was Christian Grey. That's all I have to say about that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I actually enjoy cooking. Hard to believe, I know. Breakfast is my specialty, but I can make anything if you give me a recipe or guidelines. Still looking to improve on my grilling abilities!

Movies: I like all types of movies outside of horror, but I can sometimes be convinced to watch one or two horror flicks...per decade. The Great Gatsby is one of my personal favorites (both the book and the movie).

Music: everything from rap to rock to country. I can be convinced to listen to about anything at least once. This is why I pay monthly for Spotify. Worth every penny. Also I challenge you to find another person who has been to a Jay-Z concert and multiple Luke Bryan/Jason Aldean concerts. Yep. That happened.

Books: I was an English major. Literature concentration. I'm sure you see where I'm going with this.
The six things I could never do without
Close friends and family
My iPhone (I'm convinced I could take over the world on my iPhone if I wanted)
The ability to travel (I'm an "airline brat")
My car + radar detector
Rational/logical thought
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to change the world for the better. You know, nothing too heavy.

How many women on OKC overlook my profile because they would "strongly prefer to go out with someone of the same racial/ethnic background." I would love for someone to attempt to explain their reasoning to me for marking yes on that one. Just curious.

My future relationships. I want to one day be an amazing husband and father. I'm a romantic to the core, so things like that make me smile a bit.

My mom. Full disclosure (and something I am not too sensitive to talk about): my mom died the summer before my senior year of college. She gallantly battled Ovarian cancer for 5 long years. She meant everything to me and I am determined to honor her memory by being the man she wanted me to become.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have a typical Friday night. I like to be spontaneous, so whatever I feel like doing is what usually happens.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm smarter than most people.

Or maybe I'm just really good at using Google.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–27
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you made it this far!

you are intrigued.

you are a PT or massage therapist that can fix my shoulders (swimmer problems). Seriously. You'd never pay for dinner again.

And MOST inportantly...

...if you are able to have an engaging conversation. Apparently it's harder than it seems?

Instant props/attention-grabber: women who aren't afraid to break the ice first.