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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 18
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from law school
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), French (Poorly), Esperanto (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Easygoing but entertaining. True-blue but truthful. Realistic but optimistic. Strong enough for a man but made for a woman.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Besides looking for you? I spend a good deal of time increasing and interpreting knowledge, while appreciating and acknowledging non-knowledge (including biblical). In the meantime, I find that I never help myself more than when I help others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Wordplay, trivia, running (but let's just say it's been too long since my last marathon), chess, singing, listening, solving other people's problems, conversing with animals (you should hear what they say about us!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Blue eyes and one-liners
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A Confederacy of Dunces, The Shawshank Redemption, The Daily Show, classic alternative (I'm listening to the MC cable channel right now - The Clash!), cherries
Second-favorites: Fear and Loathing on the Campaign Trail '72, The Philadelphia Story, The Rachel Maddow Show, 19th-Century Romantic (Brahms!), Eggplant Parmesan
(By the way, "Grease" could fit in every category [yes, there's a novelization based on the movie based on the musical, and a UK casting reality show].)

Sox, Pats, C's, B's, Gators, Gators. (13 championships in 14 years!)

What's on my iPod, you ask? (OK, even if you didn't ask:)

Aaron Copland, Airborne Toxic Event, Alanis Morissette, Alice in Chains, Amy Winehouse, Andy McKee, Art Blakey, AWOLNATION, The B-52's, The Bad Plus, Bad Religion, Barber, Bastille, Beck, Bach, Beethoven, Brahms, Berlioz, Bernstein, Benny Goodman, Big Country, The Black Keys, Bon Iver, Bowie, Bruce, Bush, Cage the Elephant, Cake, Charlie Parker, Chevelle, The Clash, The Cure, Dave Brubeck, DMB, Death Cab for Cutie, The Decemberists, Depeche Mode, Dire Straits, Dread Zeppelin, Duke Ellington, Dylan, E Street Band, Echo and the Bunnymen, Elvis, Elvis, English Beat, Evanescence, Everclear, Feist, Filter, Fiona Apple, The Fixx, Florence and the Machine, Foo Fighters, fun, Garbage, Gorillaz, Green Day, Gershwin, Grouplove, Handel, Iggy Pop, Incubus, INXS, The Jam, James Taylor, Jane's Addiction, Joe Jackson, John Coltrane, The Joy Formidable, The Killers, King Crimson, Live, Liz Phair, Lorde, Louis Armstrong, Luscious Jackson, Meg Myers, Mahler, Midnight Oil, Miles Davis, Modern English, Morning Parade, Mozart, Mumford & Sons, Muse, My Morning Jacket, The Naked and Famous, Neon Trees, Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, Oasis, Of Monsters and Men, The Offspring, Pearl Jam, Peter Gabriel, Pink Floyd, The Pixies, PJ Harvey, The Police, The Pretenders, Queens of the Stone Age, R.E.M., Radiohead, Rancid, Ray Charles, RHCP, Robert Johnson, Rush, Schubert, Schumann, The Shins, Silversun Pickups, Simple Minds, Sinatra, Smashing Pumpkins, The Smiths, Soul Coughing, Soundgarden, Spacehog, Springsteen (in case you missed it the first two times), Steely Dan, Steve Reich, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Stone Temple Pilots, Strauss (R, not J) Sublime, Talking Heads, Tears for Fears, 10,000 Maniacs, Tool, Tori Amos, The The, U2, Veruca Salt, Violent Femmes, Warren Zevon, Weezer, White Stripes, XTC, Young the Giant, Yes. Yesss. (If I want to listen to the Beatles, Stones, Who, Led Zep, Allman Brothers, Hendrix, or Boston, I'll just turn on a classic rock station and wait.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can do without any "thing," so ...

Friends and Family
The ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The human mind & how it interacts
Information (useful and otherwise)
The music in my head
Whether "More Conventionally Moral" is a compliment or an insult
Why mattress stores aren't open later
Why my poetry blog is popular with Russians (
Rachel Maddow (I know, I know ...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
living in the now. Now. (A funny-looking word, as are "one," "two," "four," "eight," "shoe," "awry," "juice," and "kumquat." [OK, "kumquat" really isn't in this category - I just wanted to write "kumquat." Kumquat. Kumquat juice.])
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm agnostic about agnosticism.
You should message me if
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you're sick of going out with THAT guy.