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58 Matthews, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 30
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A summary? Not easy to do. A city boy from a farm state. A normal healthy red-blooded American male who learned the real meaning of love. Someone who has lived most of his fantasies, but now needs to live his dreams with a great partner. A man who got younger on the day his granddaughter was born. If anything, a man who knows that there are two sides to every story, and the truth has bit of both somewhere in the middle. Tell me what every sentence in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 has in common and we are well on our way! (Nobody has yet to get this right!)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now my life is overwhelmed with my work, but it’s for a very noble cause. I work in the online operations and media department of a non-profit that helps people save their homes from foreclosure all over the country. It means frequent travel and long days, but when you see your efforts directly contributing to saving homes, families and even lives, it makes it wothwhile.

On the other hand, I want my life back. Music, tennis, photography, public speaking and someone to share it with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, tennis, photography, public speaking, counseling, computers, and a few other things. Life is too short and has too many possibilities to only concentrate on one thing! Just when you think things are starting to get complacent with me, I'll come up with a big surprise...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that... well... I'm short! (Doesn't bother me at all. My last girlfriend was 6'0"... and we were great together... in lots of ways!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Biographies and how to books, with the occasional self-help tome for extra flavor. Music is all over the place, From Sting to Jamie Cullum, Diane Birch, Kenny Loggins, Train, Neon Trees, Coldplay. I have seen some AMAZING shows at the Blumenthal in both big and small venues. TV... The Mentalist, Hawaii Five-O, One Tree Hill, Doctor Who, Elementary, Live From Daryl's House, Arrow. Food... A dangerous subject. What I don't like is the shorter list. Food should fit the occasion too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Son John
My Laptop
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The things I want to accomplish yet and how to go about doing them!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with my 21 year old son. He's my sidekick, best buddy and wingman.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll have to get to know me a LOT better...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interested in intelligence, variety, music, adventure and romance. You need to believe in substance over form. We've got a lot to talk about. If it's got to be attached to a Ryan Reynolds, Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Mel Gibson clone, don't bother. If you are form over substance, the call me to model in front of my camera. Otherwise, let's meet over coffee and start something worthwhile!