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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:43pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Okay)
My self-summary
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Un splendido quarantenne, come diceva Moretti ! Alright I'll try and be a bit more humble :)
In any case, I'm a bloke who likes to talk, go around old Paris, and explore the world in words, when not in person. I spent eleven years in London, with fond memories.
I'm also clearly of the left, active in movements against racism, for social justice, and the rest of it.
I also play the piano and the guitar, whether jazz or rock. If you sing, or play an instrument, I'm into that !
I'm into open (polyamorous) relationships, just so you know/ je suis adepte des relations non-exclusives, pas forcément insignifiantes pour autant - on peut aimer plusieurs personnes à la fois.... (how's that for translation ? discuss)
What I’m doing with my life
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Being politically active, playing the piano, reading books about chimpanzees, discovering people, and, er, working.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Well, you can always get better, but I do have a taste for people's stories, and I try to be attentive to people's wants, discomforts, hesitations, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Tall, wearing glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Trotsky, histoire de la révolution russe, Cervantes, Don quijote, Jonathan Coe, What a carve up, Conrad, Heart of darkness.... Right now I'm reading Primo Levi's La tregua/The truce/Reawakening/La trève), what a fantastic writer !
Filmwise : King Kong, The manchurian candidate, Singing in the Rain, Pierrot le Fou, a lot of golden age Hollywood. Musicwise : Beatles, Coltrane, Motorhead, and foodwise : wine, sushi, surprises....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books. Films. Records. Walking about. Food. Air. Water. That's seven.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, philosophy, and silly practical questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There's plenty in the "questions" tab.
You should message me if
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- you play any instrument, or sing and fancy a singalong or jam
- you want to discuss emancipatory politics
- you want to discuss polyamory
- you're looking for polyamorous relationships
- you're looking for someone to go to the movies with
- you want someone to walk around Paris

(This is all "either/or", of course :) )