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TePHILin

36 M Waltham, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:49pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Icebreaking Joke: What did John say when he walked into the bar?

Real Deep Content: Although I'm serious about my goals in life, I'm a bit wacky, and will find humor in puns, sound-effects, facial expressions. If your sense of humor hasn't changed since you were five, I'm your man.

I am driven by strong ideological beliefs. I am a nonviolence advocate. I will impose those feelings on others with force, if necessary. I REALLY enjoy repartee - let's converse for the sake of conversing. You're going to need to understand obscure pop culture references, deadpan sarcasm, and not mind inane subject matter.

I suppose I'm looking for the rare combination of passionate and down-tempo. Does such a combination exist?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Youth Policy Wonk.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analytical analysis
Puzzles
Running around outside
Singing in the car and the shower
Taking care of children who are not my own
Persisting on tasks
Remembering names
Spelling and grammar (and talking about Kelsey Grammer)
Being realistically idealistic
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People seem to like my teeth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(I like lists:)

Books: some favorites are: 1984, Their Eyes Were Watching God, Crime and Punishment, Snow, The Kite Runner, The Grapes of Wrath, The Invisible Man (Ellison version), Juneteenth, Apex Hides the Hurt, Extremely Loud and Incredible Close, The Bell Jar, Mountains Beyond Mountains, Confessions of an Economic Hitman, Hard Times, The Catcher in the Rye, Lolita, Niagara Falls All Over Again, City of Thieves

Music: Trip-hop, Hip-hop, Brit-pop, Be-bop (but not Doo-wop): Explosions in the Sky, Stevie Wonder, Morcheeba, Rush, Living Colour, James, Queen, Lush, Massive Attack, Aimee Mann, Radiohead, Blackalicious, Zero 7, Mogwai, The Beatles, Pink Floyd, Thievery Corporation, Les Nubians, Traffic, Simple Minds, Digable Planets, Fiona Apple, Yes, The Who, The Black Crowes, Soundgarden, Low, Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young (or any combination of them), Alice Smith, U2, Gov't Mule, Tears for Fears, Sia, Duran Duran, Peter Gabriel, Rage Against the Machine, Herbie Hancock, Sigur Ros, Beirut, Air, Anything Clapton or early Winwood, George Michael, Greyboy Allstars, GusGus, Jeff Buckley, Hendrix, Paul Simon, RHCP, Seal, Soulive, The xx

Movies: Midnight Cowboy, The Shawshank Redemption, City of God, The Usual Suspects, The Shining, Brazil, The Lives of Others, Mulholland Drive, 12 Angry Men, Half Nelson, American Beauty, The Hustler, The Big Lebowski, Memento, The Day of the Locust, Jacob's Ladder, The Professional, Hotel Rwanda, Harold and Maude, Pan's Labyrinth, Wild Strawberries, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Closer, My Cousin Vinny, Raising Arizona, Major League, Men at Work, Better Off Dead, Magnolia, The Man with Two Brains, The Manchurian Candidate, The Fantastic Mr. Fox, The Matrix, The Sixth Sense, Lars and the Real Girl, Quick Change, In the Heat of the Night, Ghost World, Network, Marathon Man, Rear Window, Vertigo, Iris, The Man Who Knew Too Much, Being John Malcovich, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Young Frankenstein, You and Me and Everyone We Know, I Heart Huckabees, 21 Grams, Little Children, Good Morning Vietnam, Ordinary People, The Conversation, Into the Wild, Back To the Future, Gandhi, Biutiful, The Secret in their Eyes, District 9, Citizen Kane, Hud, Gran Torino, To Kill a Mockingbird, Casablanca, Michael Clayton, Mud, The Hunt, The Broken Circle Breakdown

Television: Homicide: Life on the Street, Arrested Development, House, Freaks and Geeks The Good Wife, Northern Exposure, The Wire

Food: Anything spicy (Italian, Thai, Mexican, Korean, Indian, etc.). I am also a huge pizza snob.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Music and Movies
2. Old friends
3. Kids
4. Baseball
5. Pizza
6. Cambridge
7. (optional) Food, shelter, clothing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Silly things that don't matter that I can look up on the web, such as: what ever happened to Dwayne from "What's Happening?," why do some people call it Burma and some Myanmar?, what causes shrinkage? Things like that. A good trivia question or word puzzle will also keep me up at night thinking.

How to get the dried dough off my butcher block table.

Among things that matter: politics, spirituality, philosophy. I love to debate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ideally sipping red wine on a patio somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I shared an intimate elevator ride with Dennis Kucinich. Lurid details available only by request.
You should message me if
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You care about what is going on in the world. You can be sarcastic with me, and can understand my humor without being offended. You are genuinely nice and a good person. You inspire me to learn and grow.

You have the second half of the White Album and will burn it for me.