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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 21
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'd mark myself down as a geeky, quirky sort, but ideally you'll read my profile and decide if my personality sounds like it'll gel with yours. I'm a bit odd-edged on my humor; so, I'm looking for a Pokemon on which geeky jokes are Super Effective.

I've started to go to the gym; but for now, I'm lean. If you like real slim guys, we're golden.

I suppose it's weird to be a guy that owns a cat, but I'm working on being a diabolical super-villain, so that seems to fit. If you're allergic, I'm your new arch-nemesis, because my secret weapon will want to put fur on you right away. I've helped with animal rescue in the past as well, getting homes for abandoned animals.

I'm low pressure, low stakes, so if we hit it off, that's great. If we don't, that's all right too. As I see it, you get better by doing. I'm not in some big hurry. Life's a series of choices; you make a choice, learn, and live with it.

I'm directly between ISTJ and INTJ, and I'd love to hear what you are; I find personalities really fascinating.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a reliable job that I enjoy in the field I went to college for. I have time to myself, and time I spend with friends. Balance.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything crafty. I paint, I sculpt, I sew, I MAKE. I can make shoes and armor and weapons and backpacks and masks and...

Oh, right. I'm a cosplayer, but only like, twice in a year. Anime cons, Sci-fi, mostly. It's not a big deal, it's a hobby. Either you can be cool with that, or look it up if the term is confusing, or move along to another castle. Ideally I'd like to meet another cosplayer, mostly because it's a good common ground to share.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Let's just slam into this one head on: I'm short and thin. I'm a Fun-Size model of human; also known as Travel-Size. So what? I'm cheery and comfortable to be around, so my 6'1 personality can mediate a little of that. I know most women don't like short guys. That's fine, find a taller one; doesn't bother me a bit. Why would it?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have lots of favorite books, movies, shows, and some music. I don't really want to make a list. So long as you also HAVE favorite books, movies, etc, we're probably fine. I like to make lists of things ahead: what I want to do, the 'scavenger hunt' list for shopping. A list of favorites, well: we can talk about that in person.
Right now I'm re-watching Firefly. I've read and have enjoyed watching Game of Thrones. Groundhog Day is at the top of favorite movies with Beetlejuice. Harry Potter books, yay! So there you go, a few examples. I like both Star Trek and Star Wars, but generally prefer the Trek.

I feel inspired to write about food a little. I don't like cooking by myself for just myself, but I like to do it as a mutual activity! I like to experiment. I'd love to learn from you, if you're any good at cooking. I'll stand about and help chop veggies for your stir fry. ....I mean that pretty literally.

On the topic of music, I don't particularly have 'taste'. I like to browse. Often whatever's popular is fine at the time, but I'm not deeply into music in a passionate way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- There's more than Six, but these are a splattering in no particular order, and of various levels of depth.

My electric blanket when it's cold.
Family during the Holidays, but not constantly
My newest creative project (whatever that may be)
Control of my finances
A challenging job that makes me really think
My privacy in certain things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. plans, and things I'm working on currently. I'm very forward-thinking. But I can also worry too much sometimes, and can sometimes use a kick to let go of things that are outside of my control.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing from the week. Generally it wears me out. But that's a "price" of a job that challenges me.
You won't find me clubbing.
But often we'll have a Game Night. And by that I mean there's cards or dice involved, not a sport, although I've learned American Football recently (...Okay okay, it was for work). Or somebody has a small party, or a movie night, or something low-key.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dating experience is low. Comes from shy nerd background. I've been extremely career focused and haven't really been actively looking or trying. I suppose a main reason is I'm generally just fine, and feel like when I meet somebody right, it'll take care of itself. Yet I'm here. So we're just going to see.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. wanted my profile to continue with more information.

Don't wait around for a message, toss one out there!

Highest response rate is to messages that ask a question. Pick something above that we both like, and ask about it! Or maybe something super-important to you that I didn't mention... maybe I like it too.

Also, if we have a fairly high (10%+) of enemy, I'm wary. It means I'll probably look to see why the enemy rate is up. Because that means, of the issues we both feel strongly about the other person answering correctly, they answered the way we DIDN'T want.