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35 • Santa Barbara, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Jan 8
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Esperanto (Fluently)
I had an accident a couple of years ago. I'm still working on getting back to normal from that. It almost killed me, but I wouldn't trade it for anything. It made me a better person. I have a new outlook on life. I know what is important. My favorite things are spending time with my friends and family and making art. I love nature and animals. I love gardening and my main hobby is growing rare plants. I designed and built a big greenhouse that I filled with tropical ferns and rare herbs.
I am very health conscience. I have a huge garden. I do enjoy going out though...especially to Japanese restaurants.
I was born in Santa Barbara.
I used to live in China/Seattle/L.A./Mexico
I am an artist/writer
I'm well read and well traveled.
I'm really fun too...
That is about all the talking I can do about myself for now... If you have any questions, let me know?
Oh, I'm great at cooking too! Let me make you something.
I do great at cocktail parties.
Movies: I'm a huge Werner Hertzog fan. I also love everything good. I watch a bunch of movies. I love Valley Girl and The Jerk...also Being There.
Shows: I don't know what that means?
Music: Brian Eno, the Rolling Stones, the Walkmen, samba, John Lee Hooker, Grizlybear, Otis Redding, Roberta Flack, Neutral Milk Hotel, Beach House, Still Corners...
I will not talk to you if you like Nickelback.
Food: Japanese and Chinese are my fav's but I won't shy away from a taco or Greek or Indian or Italian or French or Turkish or Purivian...
I used to live in Asia. That is where my hearts' tongue is...
Funny pictures of animals doing goofy shit.
Stuff I want to do
Bobcats...because there is one that keeps coming around my kitchen window! They are so cool! I have been thinking about bobcats a lot these days.
Watching a movie in bed.
Physical therapy is slow and painful. But, it works and I plan on getting much better.
In the mean time I am struck with an urge to regain my old ways of life. I used to travel constantly. I have just started to travel again but I find that I need a companion these days.
Having been so close to death made me feel an urgency in my life. I want to see beautiful things, hear beautiful music and be around good and beautiful people all the time now.
The reason I am on this site is really to find a beautiful girl who can be my traveling companion in a romantic capacity. But, I would be happy if I found a good friend too.
Message me if you are interested.
I'll pick up the bills.
You help me get around and keep me organized.
It could be a lot of fun.
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