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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 16
Relationship Type
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Catholicism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Note: I identify as polyamorous and currently have other lovers. Many ask why. I can't stop myself from falling in love, easily and often -- bonus points if you do too.

Friendship inquiries are always welcome, particularly if you like make food, live music, or dancing.
--Now back to your regularly-schedule profile--

This morning, two friends let themselves into my house and woke me with breakfast in bed.

This evening, I served warm chocolate cake with vanilla and banana ice cream, raspberries and nectarines, drizzled with caramel and balsamic vinegar to four beautiful women, three of whom are helping me write.

Tomorrow morning I fly to points unknown to teach dance to friends and strangers.

My life is really like that. And when I'm in my element: hedonistic, affectionate, larger-than-life and surrounded by friends, my close friends call me Tedgar.

I'm looking for a monogamish partner and playmate to share beauty, food, travel, and adventures.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a professional dancer and dance instructor
I'm an engineer by training and still love to solve complicated problems
My passion is training teachers to teach better
I make my own path, and find inspiration among the trailblazers who live simply
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building community
Getting away with saying outrageous things
Dancing with grandma
Walking into a strange kitchen and whipping up a meal with what I find, doing the dishes, then escaping before they come home
Choosing the perfect present
Running with scissors
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The twinkle in my eye
(Notice a theme?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love in the Time of Cholera, Shawshank, The Red Violin, Archer, Gypsy and New Orleans Trad Jazz, homemade and decadent
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A Yucatan hammock
Live music
Sun-warmed, fresh-picked berries
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Efficient body mechanics
Communication and learning styles
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Running a dance venue until odd hours of the morning
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an authentic romantic, and a Southerner -- I miss manual locks as an excuse to open the car door for my date. Sometimes I do it anyway, efficiency be damned
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You believe in magic, or you've just baked bread
You're available for daytime adventures, or want to come out dancing
You bring whimsy with you wherever you go, and can still balance your checkbook
There's a San Francisco hole-in-the-wall you'd like to share