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44 F Santa Rosa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:05am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I've been in Santa Rosa for a year now. Work quite a bit in San Francisco.

I could write on and on here but at the end of the day, all these profiles start to sound the same. I'd like to think I'm different/special somehow, so I'll skip the places I've traveled to and "what my friends would say about me" thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Making my way the best I can. Being the "best Aunt in the history of Aunties" (so says my 6 year old niece. Working hard to build my business here the SF Bay Area. Trying my best not to let dating in my 40's get me down.
I’m really good at
Design/creative work, baton twirling, shopping, taking care of people I love, putting together parties and events, being an aunt, adapting, getting back up when I'm knocked down, rocking cowboy boots with dresses, saying y'all, speaking my mind (doesn't anyone just kindly express their feelings anymore?), making a samich, kissing boo boos, helping men pick out clothes, pointing at landmarks while on vacation, sticking my head in those cutout things, keeping it classy, wasting time on the Internet.

I'm bad at:

Hooking up electronics/computers, lying, math, being patient, not giving a fuck what people think about me, acting my age, sleeping
The first things people usually notice about me
my backup singers.

Or my accent y'all
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like food that's yummy, music that's not crappy, tv and movies that entertain me, and books rarely. Here's a list:

Ryan Adams. Shawshank Redemption. Nanci Griffith. Good Will Hunting. Silver Linings Playbook. Bob Schneider. Wilco. Jack White. Lars and the Real Girl. Dr. Suess. Mexican food (texmex to be exact - you will be rewarded handsomely if you know of a decent texmex joint in the bay area!!). Thai food. Strawberries. Longhorn Football. The Dallas Cowboys. Disneyland. Bagettes in Paris. Tapas. Hemingway. Steinbeck. nasty rap music (too short, ugk!!).Brian Jonestown massacre. The Rolling Stones. The Weepies. Historical documentaries. Jane Austen. The Shins. Yo Yo Ma playing the cello suites. Tom Petty. Shaun of the Dead/Zombieland. Bob Dylan. HBO shows. Joni Mitchell. The Decemberists. Texas bbq (duh!) Many more
The six things I could never do without
My family
Music, iPhone, Internet (holy trinity)
Flowers (my work)
My dogs
Lush bath products
Hope (I still have a little, that's why I'm here!)

Bonus: my memories

6 things I can do without:

Mean/superficial people
Stranger sex (yawn)
Indian food
Cheaters/liars/manipulators (this is usually bundled)
Emotional unavailable people who date thru online dating sites. Whaaa??
Metal music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When I will meet you.
How I love a man in a suit.
Why can't my dogs speak to me in human.
How to do gooder.
Why the people who feel the need to describe themselves as Good Looking in
their profiles aren't all that good looking

And what if the perfect match for me lives in Alaska or Wisconsin or Georgia?
On a typical Friday night I am
Reading profiles on okcupid, sadly
Or having sleepovers with my nieces.
Or maybe reading this and laughing my ass off
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't really have backup singers
I like it when guys call me "darling"
I'm not turned on by a super six pack.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You wanna be the lucky guy to get me off this site

Or if you think I could "drink a case of you and still be on my feet"

You are originally from the East Coast or the Midwest

You work at the Apple Genius Bar

You are a fireman

You have lived in Austin or anywhere in Texas.