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44 Santa Rosa, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 23
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I moved from Austin to Santa Rosa in 2013. I work in SF and yes, the commute is bad!

I'm on okcupid looking for my last great love. I have got battle scars but I'm in no way broken. I like to think of myself as a good communicator and I'm attracted to the same (tall order for men maybe).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making my way the best I can. Being the "best Aunt in the history of Aunties" (so says my 6 year old niece. Working hard to build my business here the SF Bay Area. Trying my best not to let dating in my 40's get me down.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Design/creative work, baton twirling, shopping, taking care of people I love, putting together parties and events, being an aunt, adapting, getting back up when I'm knocked down, rocking cowboy boots with dresses, saying y'all, speaking my mind (doesn't anyone just kindly express their feelings anymore?), making a samich, kissing boo boos, helping men pick out clothes, pointing at landmarks while on vacation, sticking my head in those cutout things, keeping it classy, wasting time on the Internet.

I'm bad at:

Hooking up electronics/computers, lying, math, being patient, not giving a fuck what people think about me, acting my age, sleeping
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my backup singers.

Or my accent y'all
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like food that's yummy, music that's not crappy, tv and movies that entertain me, and books rarely. Here's a list:

Ryan Adams. Shawshank Redemption. Nanci Griffith. Good Will Hunting. Silver Linings Playbook. Bob Schneider. Wilco. Jack White. Lars and the Real Girl. Dr. Suess. Mexican food (texmex to be exact - you will be rewarded handsomely if you know of a decent texmex joint in the bay area!!). Thai food. Strawberries. Longhorn Football. The Dallas Cowboys. Disneyland. Bagettes in Paris. Tapas. Hemingway. Steinbeck. nasty rap music (too short, ugk!!).Brian Jonestown massacre. The Rolling Stones. The Weepies. Historical documentaries. Jane Austen. The Shins. Yo Yo Ma playing the cello suites. Tom Petty. Shaun of the Dead/Zombieland. Bob Dylan. HBO shows. Mad Men. Orange is The New Black. Walking Dead. Mitchell. The Decemberists. Texas bbq (duh!) Many more
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
Music, iPhone, Internet (holy trinity)
Flowers (my work)
My dogs
Lush bath products
Hope (I still have a little, that's why I'm here!)

Bonus: my memories

6 things I can do without:

Mean/superficial people
Stranger sex (yawn)
Indian food ( just not my jam)
Cheaters/liars/manipulators (this is usually bundled)
Emotional unavailable people who date thru online dating sites. Whaaa??
Metal music (really not my jam literally)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When I will meet you.
How I love a man in a suit.
Why can't my dogs speak to me in human.
Sex. (Girl think about it too)
How to do gooder.
Why the people who feel the need to describe themselves as Good Looking in
their profiles aren't all that good looking

And what if the perfect match for me lives in Alaska or Wisconsin or Georgia?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Or having sleepovers with my nieces.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't really have backup singers
I like it when guys call me "darling"
I'm not turned on by a super six pack.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You wanna be the lucky guy to get me off this site

Or if you think I could "drink a case of you and still be on my feet"

You are originally from the East Coast or the Midwest

You work at the Apple Genius Bar (I am practical)

You are a fireman (cliche I know)

You have lived in Austin or anywhere in Texas.