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TellMeDark

38 / m / straight / single

Winnetka, California, United States

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patient, sarcastic, and searching

My self-summary Propose an edit

You'd have to get to know me for this to be accurate. Fortunately, I'm fairly easy to get to know.

I like nice things be they material objects, my surroundings, nature, art, people, whatever. Beauty is more than skin deep and sometimes we find it in the oddest places.

I like to laugh. I love people who can make me laugh and bonus points for people I can make laugh. There is nothing better in the world then the sound of genuine mirth and enjoyment.

I work a lot. Seriously...sometimes too much. I have more interests and things I'd like to do than I have time. I'd like to make time for these things. Right now movies, dinner, disneyland and the occasional show win out. I'm hoping to add more things to this list as time goes on. I'm also looking for new people to share that time with...

I read...everything. If I go without a book for more than a day I get cranky. If I go without hearing music for more than a day I get cranky. If I go without sleep for more than two days I get loopy. Did I mention I don't sleep a whole lot? My body still thinks it's 16 and I sometimes will go 2 or 3 days without sleep. I'll spend the 4th day sleeping for 10 hours. One day it's gonna catch up with me.

I would not consider myself perfect...far from it. But I would consider myself to be fairly well balanced. I'm open and honest and looking for the same.

If you're curious...don't be afraid to ask

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Figuring out what to do next.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Listening, remembering things you don't want me to, adapting to life, detecting bullshit, making an odd firt impression, caring, being honest, asking questions, making you laugh, being inquisitive

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My eyes and my face. My eyes because they are...odd...my face because it's the next logical step.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books: Neverwhere and American Gods. Movies: Love Actually, Return of the King, Usual Suspects, High Fidelity Music: I listen to most everything except country and gospel. I have a recent kick for 80's rock. Foods: Italian

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Internet, water, movies, music, books, people to be amused with.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

A large variety of things. If a moment happened where I was NOT thinking about something I would be worried.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

No such thing as a typical Friday evening. It depends on my mood and who I am with at the time.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

Nothing that I can think of. Guess you'll have to ask.

You should message me if Propose an edit

If you're easily amused, female, looking for someone to talk to or I know you.

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TellMeDark: 830 questions

Ethnicity
Black, White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$40,000-$50,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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