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TempestCharm

34 / M / straight / Single

Berkeley, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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I am sailor, who can't swim, and facing his fears.

My Self-Summary

I've been called an instigator, provocateur, and sometimes Trouble.

I’m a sensual dominant, imaginative, creative, twisted, kink and optimistic. Kind-hearted. This same heart has been beaten, battered and bruised, yet pumping strong. Still guided by child-like-innocence and cat-like-curiosity. Still have six more lives!

I am out-going and driven. I have passions and goals. I'm employed and good at my work. I am financially independent and thriving in life. I'm funny, witty and optimistic. I'm nesting in my own place. I'm adverse to BS and drama. I got my sh*t together. I have a lot to offer; Are you brave enough to share?

In matters of the heart, I don't play games: I'm not a Playa. I'm honest, loyal, loving. I have three weapons in my search for love. They are hope, optimism, wit, and my great ass. Knowing how to count is not one of them.

The World's a rollercoaster
And I'm not strapped in
Maybe I should hold with care
But my hands are busy in the air!

What I’m doing with my life

I'm nesting. I've created a cool look for my place. No, I'm not gay.

I'm testing my limits. Living on the fringe. Staying positive. Smiling. And loving every minute.

I'm seeking out new experiences, challenges, and people that will inspire me to learn, grow and evolve. And from those lessons, I hope to share and exchange with others.

I'm helping the Environment. Trying to purchase foods locally, eating low in the pyramid, driving less, using less.

I’m really good at

Sharing my passions: I enjoy sailing, riding my motorcycle, rock climbing, and creating art. Actually I don't sail, I race! If you are interested in experiencing any of the above activities, shoot me a message.

Cooking: I was once crowned Iron Chef!! Lately I've learned to cook a killer tandoori chicken from an Indian friend who don't cook.

Photography: I have an uncanny eye for framing my shots! Ask me kindly and I'll share with you my Flickr site.

Giving massages and holding hands: I'm very tactile and often get my hands in places they don't belong.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm intense and bustling with energy and passions.

The six things I could never do without

1) My Swiss army knife (as a kid, I was a huge MacGyver fan. Now I can build a hang-glider with duct tape and my pocket knife!)

2) My PFD aka Personal Flotation Device (remember I can't swim)

3) my motorbike

4) my climbing harness

5) a pencil and sketch pad (hey this is counted as one, they are a set for engaging my creative emergencies!)

6) and Love (call me cheezy but I prefer romantic).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Recently it's jeans. How important is it for a woman to see a man with good fitting jeans?

Jeans fit run the spectrum: "gansta" baggy> Loose > Fitted > "gay-men" tight

What do women prefer?

On a typical Friday night I am

I'm climbing up walls, dodging punches, drinking, or simply trying to find my way out of some kind of trouble. Sometimes not in this exact order. Care to join? ;)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Though I'm active, out-going and driven, I'm deathly shy. You will probably have to be the first to send me a message, shoot me a wink, or send a message via homing pigeon. Sorry, just visiting my profile doesn't work.

You should message me if

* You are active like me: You want to challenge your body and your mind.

* You're looking for a nice boy with an edge, who won't cut you, but rather inspire and challenge you to grow and stretch your limits. Join forces with me and WE WILL RAGE!