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34 F Washington, DC

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 14
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Here are a few facts about me:

1. I like a lot of things, but I love reading on my balcony on a warm night and playing tennis with someone who hits the ball hard.
2. There's a lot about DC I love, but I kind of wish I were living in San Francisco.
3. Good food and quality drinks comprise most of my monthly expenses, aside from rent, utilities, and the occasional vacation.
4. I am from St. Louis, but I love spending time in the mountains.
5. I think a man without religion is like a fish without a bicycle.
6. I like to make lists.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Bike commuting! It's a way of life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Diplomatically vetoing my friends' suggested venues for dinner and drinks, or so I've been told.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My curly hair, or that I'm possibly like three minutes late to meet them. (Not more than five, I'm not a monster.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like good fiction, compelling non-fiction/long-form journalism, and smart trashy stuff like mysteries and spy thrillers. Off the top of my head, Lawrence Wright, George Orwell, Neil Gaiman, Alison Bechdel, Lionel Shriver, John Le Carre, George Eliot, Jonathan Spence, Donna Tartt. The best novel I've read in the last year was The Middlesteins by Jami Attenburg.

TV: Arrested Development and The Wire, obviously. I like them both, but I think Curb Your Enthusiasm is brilliant, while Seinfeld was funny. I'm a sucker for almost anything (except Girls) on HBO -- particularly Veep and Thrones -- and I have seen every episode of South Park at least once. House of Cards and Orange is the New Black are both great. I keep watching The Walking Dead for some reason, too.

Movies: Woody Allen--whatever else he may be, he's a movie-making genius. The Lives of Others, Sneakers, Amelie, Searching for Sugarman, His Girl Friday, Charlie Wilson's War, Ghostbusters, Best in Show, Nebraska. I am done going to Wes Anderson movies and hoping they'll actually be as good as people claim they are.

Podcasts: Ronna and Beverly, Julie Klausner, Dead Authors Podcast, Comedy Bang Bang, This American Life, Fresh Air.

Food: Anything good, particularly if it's spicy and/or involves fresh fruit.

For music, I like Tune Yards, Aimee Mann, Vampire Weekend, Elliott Smith, St. Vincent, Bon Iver, Of Monsters and Men, Liz Phair, Radiohead, the Lumineers, Brad Mehldau, Charles Mingus, Dvorak, Beethoven, and lots more, but I'm actually getting sick of making lists!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is the difference between a pilsner and a lager? No one's ever been able to give me a satisfying answer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I didn't know to what the phrase "Oxford comma" referred until I started looking around on okcupid. For the legions of you who feel strongly about it, I used it without knowing what it was called, so just stand down.
You should message me if
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You have something interesting to say. Or if you want to play tennis. Did I mention I like red wine, sour beer and pretentious cocktails?

Please DO NOT message me if you are (1) outside of my age range in either direction; (2) in an open relationship/ looking for a third; or (3) someone who would describe himself as "traditional," particularly with respect to gender roles.