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35 Washington, DC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 31–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:29am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If I had a trust fund, I'd summer in Budapest, winter in Luang Prabang, and spend my time writing and playing tennis. I don't have a trust fund, so I live in DC and work for the government.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Bike commuting! It's a way of life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'll tell you what I'm bad at -- keeping plants alive. Although I did pretty well with hot peppers the last few summers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My curly hair, or that I'm possibly like three minutes late to meet them. (Not more than ten, I'm not a monster.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Lawrence Wright, Neil Gaiman, Alison Bechdel, Lionel Shriver, John Le Carre, George Eliot, Jonathan Spence.

TV: When is Curb coming back? And why are there only ten episodes per season of Game of Thrones?

Movies: Woody Allen--whatever else he may be, he's a movie-making genius, except for the years when he really sucks at it. The Lives of Others, Sneakers, Amelie, Searching for Sugarman, His Girl Friday, Ghostbusters, Best in Show, Nebraska, The Babadook.

Podcasts: Ronna and Beverly, Dead Authors Podcast, Comedy Bang Bang, This American Life, Fresh Air.

Food: I love spicy food and fresh fruit. Also red wine and sour beer.

For music, I like Tune Yards, Aimee Mann, Vampire Weekend, Elliott Smith, St. Vincent, Bon Iver, Liz Phair, Radiohead, Brad Mehldau, Charles Mingus, Dvorak, Beethoven, and lots more, but I'm getting really sick of making lists!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why okcupid thinks I'm such a bitch. (Check out my personality graph!) Don't believe it. Okcupid is throwing shade in the wrong direction.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had to google "oxford comma" and "sapiosexual" after seeing these words on so many of your profiles. For the legions of you who feel strongly about the former, I used it without knowing what it was called, so just stand down. Regarding the latter, I am just relieved to know that far fewer of you admit online to being deeply twisted than I originally feared.
You should message me if
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You're a good person, you're a grown-up, you have something interesting to say, and/or you want to play tennis.

Please DO NOT message me if you are (1) outside of my age range in either direction; (2) in an open relationship/ looking for a third; or (3) someone who would describe himself as "traditional," particularly with respect to gender roles.