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40 M Austin, TX

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you consider yourself more of a kind, caring, and warm hearted woman then please read "SECTION A".

If you consider yourself more of a straight forward, witty, or sarcastic woman then please read "SECTION B".

Of course feel free to read both sections... if you dare!

A million thoughts race through my head. How will I do this? I think of all the things I want to say and the things I shouldn't. I want to be confident but not vain. I want to be strong but not controlling. I want to be sensitive but not weak. I gather all my courage and after all of this all I can say is a simple... "Hello".

There nothing I can tell you here that could possible make your decision for you. I understand that and don't really try as hard as I should. The chances of me randomly contacting anyone are slim. I'd rather let those who are interested in me make the first contact. There is chance I may contact you first… but I doubt it.

The bottom line is that I am happy in my life right now. I am raising my 7 year old son on my own. He makes me laugh everyday. I'm not looking for a new mother for him. He already has one. I am simply looking to share my happiness with new friends. Should something develop further… only time will tell.

If by chance I do contact you, it will be because something has raised my eyebrows. It will always be a shared interest over physical appearance. Compatibility of the basics are more important than anything when it comes to friends or more… something many of us had to learn the hard way. That being said there is something to physical attraction after all that is why we post pics.

There are many interesting people in the world, but we all need that special spark to get us interested in each other.

Embrace your misconceptions for I am not your prince in shining armor. Ready your doubts for I do not want to have sex with you.

I am a person you do not know. These words will only provide you with a glimpse of who I really am. To know me is to understand me. Obviously that cannot be obtained in a few hundred words in a profile. Even as you read my words you may already be attaching your own interpretation to each sentence I have written.

I am not lonely. I am not here to persuade you to date me nor am I a puppy dog whimpering in the store window begging to be taken home. I see every contact here as the beginning of a friendship and nothing more.

As you can tell by now I am not your average guy. I'm not going to whisper sweet nothings into your ears. Any guy can tell you what you want to hear whether it's at a bar or online.

I will tell you what I am thinking, when I am thinking it. Granted I will be tactful in my delivery, but in the end you will get my honest opinion.

Are you looking for true love? I have already found it in the smiles and hugs from my son. I will cherish it for as long at it lasts. Will it last forever? Who knows… but that is the point. Enjoy the moment. Don't worry about tomorrow and don't dwell on the past.

Everyone is looking for happiness. The only problem is that few ever obtain it and more importantly… if you are not happy with yourself then you never will. I am happy with my life. I am simply looking to share my happiness with new friends. Should something develop further… only time will tell… if at all.

Will you see my silence as judgement? Will you see my kindness as weakness? Will you see my confidence as arrogance?

Hmm... I wonder if I sound kinda like a "woman hater"?

Oh and one more thing… maturity comes with life experience, not age. You can be a woman and still act like a girl or visaversa.

Truth hurts doesn't it… tell your friends.

Wow... if you read through both sections then I'm already impressed. Please don't think that this was written in malice. I simply wanted to express myself as honestly as possible.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
You're never to old to continue learning and advancing your life whether it be personal or professional. I keep trying to advance myself in both.

Staying healthy is very important to me. I was overweight until I turned 27 when I made a choice to better myself. No reason... I just felt it was time to make a change. I now exercise no less then 5 times a week whether it be weights, jogging, or any physical activity. It's become second nature to me.

I enjoy going to the movies. During the summer season I'm pretty much spending my weekend nights at the theater. If there is a book... I try reading the book before watching the movie. Books are always better. I also enjoy going to concerts and live shows as well. I love living in Austin. It's such a great place for live shows. However I also love renting movies and having a movie night at home. Bars and clubs have never interested me. Sorry. Going out to dinner with a group of friends has always been more my style.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I’m really good at being brutally honest. It gets me in trouble sometimes but at least you know what I am thinking.

I love to draw. People often ask me why I don't do it professionally. I've always found it to be more of a relaxing hobby.

I've been an artist since I could pick up a crayon. Finally going to get back into it by attending school next year. Fingers crossed. A career is one thing... doing something you love is something totally different and more rewarding.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My age... which people always get wrong. Whether it is my appearance, personality, family genes or just dumb luck people often are shocked when I tell them my age. People assume that I am 5 to 8 years younger than I really am. Go figure? I used to hate it when I was younger... now I find it flattering.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This time around I would really like to meet someone with shared interest. While I am a fan of the following they are enjoyed in moderation and not a dominating accept of my life so here goes... comics, videos games, horror movies (especially zombie). It would be nice to meet someone who doesn't condemn my interest even though they are not a big part of my life... it's still me. Take it or leave it. That being said...

Books: Last great book I read "Art & Fear: Observations On the Perils (and Rewards) of Artmaking"

Movies: Sci-fi, Action, Adventure, Horror (Gory Horror is okay but I rather watch Mental, Creepy Horror. I also love Zombie movies and anything remotely apocalyptic.

Music: Favorite Band at the moment... Sleigh Bells. Industrial Music (NIN, Rammstein, etc), Alterative Music (Nirvana, Ghostland Observatory, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Radiohead, etc), Classic Rock (Pink Floyd, David Bowie, The Eagles, etc), almost everything 80's and a dab of "The Man In Black" Johnny Cash himself!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Pencils
2. Blank Sheets of Paper
3. My iPod/iPhone (Whichever can hold the most of my favorite Tunes)
4. My Mind (My Imagination)
5. Books (Other people's Imagination)
6. Spell and Grammar Check (I'm an Artist not a Writer!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I really don't spend a lot of time thinking about this but I do wonder from time to time on many women are waiting for me to make the first move. I've always preferred the ladies make the first contact... after all it is 2014 (equal rights for the sexes).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What am I doing on a Friday night? The same thing I do every night... trying to take over the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I prefer to sleep in my birthday suit.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you are a Muse looking for an Artist or a Vampire looking for a victim, but be forewarned... I carry a wooden stake.