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TenuousGrail

32 M Spartanburg, SC

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This empty space yawns and intimidates me.

I could copy and paste a summary from another dating site, but this isn't strictly a dating site, is it? So that would be a little inappropriate. Not to mention lazy.

In accordance with OkCupid's "three adjectives" thing, I am funny, honest, and introverted. At least I think I'm funny.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After a long break from college, I'm back at Wofford College and working on my English degree. I really have no clear idea what I'll be doing afterward. Graduate school, possibly. Maybe teaching English in another country. It depends on where I am in my life at that point.

I'm also working full time in a cotton mill (manual labor!). It's not a career and never could be, but it helps me keep the weight off and I like the physical activity. Second shift allows me to take classes, too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
observing and understanding people, holding a conversation and giving advice. At least, I think I am.

I love to make people laugh if I can, and I'm not bad at it. My sense of humor is sarcastic and a little warped, and some people just don't get it.

I'm gifted with the written word, which is a damn good thing since I'm an English major.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I honestly have no idea. That I'm sort of tall, maybe?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I enjoy the work of way too many authors to list, but my favorites to date are William Faulkner (The Sound and the Fury is probably my favorite novel) and Cormac McCarthy. I've read all of the latter's work. He's incredible.

A list of the films I love would take forever. Among my favorites are Pulp Fiction, The Conversation, Jacob's Ladder, Fargo, Lost in Translation, Falling Down, The Iron Giant, Once Upon a Time in the West, and pretty much anything by Miyazaki. I love and enjoy pretty much every genre, but I'm the most drawn to drama, I think. I also love great television (David Milch is my freakin' hero and The Wire is literally life-changing stuff).

Musically, I'm a little unconventional. I enjoy most genres of music (yes, even some country), but If I'm listening to the radio, it's either tuned to a talk station (and I'm probably talking back to the radio) or my iPod.

I won't even attempt a list of foods I love. How about a list of foods I dislike? I'm not a huge fan of sushi... and that's about it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) my family and pets (boring but true)
2) my close friends (ditto)
3) my individuality
4) art (mostly literature)
5) the internet (SAD but true)
6) video games (but not MMORPGs like World of Warcraft)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my family and my future, the things that motivate individual human behaviors, human nature, and my own motivations, values, strengths and weaknesses. Is it obvious I'm an introvert?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working, from 4PM to midnight. Saturday night too, at the moment. Sunday is my day off, during which I usually go out to hang out or eat with my friends or lounge around my apartment, catching up on my reading and gaming.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The personality awards on this site are a complete joke. In fact, I think this site is a joke, and I don't expect anything to come from my presence here.
You should message me if
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you're bored and you just want to chat. I'm not particular. (If I don't answer, I've left the browser open and I'm gone somewhere, honest.)